Hi, I'm 14, a girl, and can't tell if i'm gay or bi or watever. I don't really feel that attracted to guys or girls. I don't know why. But, I do find myself staring at girls a lot, and i get a little tingly all over, sometimes, when i see girls. It's not very strong so I don't know yet. Help me if you can, thanks
You're still just 14. Maybe you're getting those feelings EVERYONE gets at that age. Maybe you're really a lesbian. Just give it time....you'll know if you're a lesbian or if you're just having normal hormonal changes and wanting to explore.
yeah you're only 14, you're just livin! boys and girls are very different, but just the same, each person is very unique,,, i got a friend who right now, she's thinking that she's not only a lesbian anymore,,, i got a feeling that at a younger age hormones and immaturity got the gender roles very rah rah rah,,, what a guy or girl will be when they're more mature is neither here nor there yet, your opinions may change over time, ya know? i say, just enjoy bein a kid =) if love and passion comes your way, you know your own feelings best =) peace!
as stated above, you have plenty of time to figure out your sexuality. no need to put any labels on it any time soon.
thanks everyone, it's just everyone keeps asking, but i guess you're right, i'll just enjoy myself for now
