Sup all, here for some advice, so if you have nothing helpfull dont say anything at all, theres this girl who drives me crazy, and I feel we have a real conection, whenever we would talk everything would just flow, and I really wanna ask her out, so I had my guts all up, and I could not find her at school that day, and now the only way to ask her out is over msn, (dont have her number or anything like that) and Im not sure if it is even worth trying cause of how tacky it is, I plan on taking her to a picnic if I ever do ask her out, so any advice on where to take her, and how to IM her as little tackiness as possible would be greatly apprecciated. I must mention ive never asked a girl out so the fear factor is huge, and I have no idea where to go on a first date :&
wait for another day in school? or just ask her if you want to hang out through the im thing... the way our technology is shifting, it's really a major way people communicate these days. if she finds that tacky, screw her anyways.. what's the point of being with someone so judgemental? and think of what you're saving yourself from by getting her true colours now. a first date? nothing expensive or over the top.. why don't you skip the cliche movie thing and just go around the city or something? take her to a special park for a walk or a cafe or something. just remember, the slower you take it with someone, the longer it lasts.
I'll draw this up for you, so no thinking is required: Tuesday - ask her if she wants to go to a party on friday night with you and some of your friends (must be a mixed group of guys and girls to seem less threatening). Don't seriously talk to her again until thursday at the earliest (you have to seem less desperate than you really are). Thursday - confirm that she's coming, set up a place to meet friday. Don't call to confirm, or really seem like you care if she comes that much. Friday - go out, have lots of fun, BE lots of fun, flirt, but don't overtly hit on her. before she leaves, ask her if she wants to go to a hangover breakfast tomorrow. 3 or 4 days after that, ask her if she wants to hang out and watch a movie or something chill like that. thats when you nail her.
