Help Me Anybody

Discussion in 'Dreams' started by lanalou, Sep 7, 2004.

  1. lanalou

    lanalou Member

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    :( i have a re-occuring nightmare.....my bf is cheating on me....somebody pls help me....its affecting my relationship as i have begun over the past 5 months to be realy possessive...i was never like that!!! :(
     
  2. Crayola

    Crayola =)

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    talk to him about it..?
     
  3. lanalou

    lanalou Member

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    Yup..he says that i am insane and that i need to back off about it...its really affecting my relationship....:(
     
  4. Anistara

    Anistara Member

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    i had a boyfriend tell me i was insane for thinking that. but i caught him, in a dream. it was completely lucid and i sort of flew in the door, watched him and didnt say anything for a couple days.


    you know.

    i'm not saying he is or isn't, but if you are feeling insecure in your relationship for no good reason, then there is still a problem. tendancies toward jealousy and fear are problematic in any relationship...

    you have to have security, no possessiveness.

    what to do???...

    peace
    anistara
     
  5. DreamWeaver1099

    DreamWeaver1099 Senior Member

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    Just shoot him in teh head and find another one.
     
  6. wilddaisy69

    wilddaisy69 Member

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    hey, i had a few scary dreams about my fiancee dying, getting into an accident, and yes even us breaking up. these dreams just revealed my deepest fears, but is not a reality! I told him about them, he reassured everything is alright and that they are ONLY dreams. These kind of dreams reveal our most deepest fears,even when we arenot aware of them. About your boyfriend he should of not called you insane, because you are not insane. he sounds insensitive. maybe you should confront him about what he called you, and if he says any more nasty comments that bring you down, i would suggest move on with your life, and you will meet someone who is not insensitive. Don't let him bring you down, if he loves you, he would encourage you.peace and love!
     
  7. whispers

    whispers sweet and sour

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    ...............just cheat on him in your dreams, you show that bastard.
     

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