HELP. idk if im gay

guys i need some help. im a guy whos 16 and idk if im gay or not. i havent really ever had sexualy experiences with guys. but i fantasize about sucking another guy off all the time and i enjoy fingering my asshole, and all that stuff. but i also enjoy being with a girl too. idk, if this is a phase or something idk. what should i do?

 

Well, are you attracted to males? Or are you just fantasizing about it? And don't forget the possibility of bisexuality, too..

 

If your fantasizing oral sex with other men you definitely have a same-sex attraction.

About women though, are you sexually attracted to the female form?

I mean I'm gay, but I'm not repulsed in anyway by the female form, I'm just not naturally attracted to it. A lot of people confused about their sexuality can have heterosexual sex and still enjoy it, but when they have homosexual sex, it feels more natural and a deeper connection or whatever.

Anyways their is nothing wrong with it, and you should explore your sexuality and come to your own choice and label or no label.

 

awesome. thanks. anyone wanna send me some nudes. see if im attracted?

 

your gay alright...

 

no im not. not nessesarly

 

Are you happy Thinking about sucking dick??? if the answer is YES your gay...
GAY PPL are happy cause they enjoy sex in a diferent way,,, Its a brain activity thats not present in hetrosexuals... If you think about it and get giddy and GAY...
Your gay.. Can you control your fantasy or do you want to be a homosexual..
Even if you try a homosexual experience once that dont mean your gay...or bisexual
it would only if you continued to be with the same sex,, or both...
If you go on and do have a homosexual experience only once or twice or even 5 times
and never do it again and stay with the opposite sex.. That dont mean your gay ,or a homo, or bisexual,,, It means Your Human...you can be gay and not a homosexual ...

 

Sounds like your gay buddy.

Go get yourself some experiences, see how it feels.

BUT BE SAFE!

 

^^ I agree.. I think there is some level of attraction to people of the same sex in most of us. It just takes a while and some experience "out of the comfort zone" to find out exactly where you stand

 

just cause pregnancy isnt an issue, remember rubbers are good.

 

The male version of the g-spot is the prostate gland, so even for non-gays, a finger up the hole will feel somewhat good. It's pretty natural for heterosexuals to fantasize about homosexual activity as it is for gays to fantasize about straight sex. In the end, you're young and have plenty of time to explore your sexuality for yourself. Like others have said, though, make sure you're safe in whatever you're doing.

 

SO WHAT !! SO WHAT!! I EVEN SUCKED A OLD MANS COCK !! SO WHAT!!! SO WHAT!!!!!!!

 

Why the focus on sex again?

*Guys that are more romantically/emotionally/physically attracted to guys
*Guys that prefer having sex with guys but will never have a boyfriend
*Guys that are mostly with girls, but have a sexual encounter with a guy every so often

I always saw these three categories as three very different things.

So when a guy asks "Am I gay?", I ask "Well, which version of gay?"

 

if your fingering your own pipe then there is a good chance your gay dude ...put 4 of them up there and jerk off while thinking of a big hard cock jammin ya ..you'll know them bud.

 

Fingering your asshole doesn't mean anything either way - some guys just like that.
According to my favorite sex columnist Dan Savage - Google him - there are lots of straight guys who sometimes fantasize about sucking dick. I know, it sounds weird to me too, but Dan Savage has a lot of experience in these things.

If I had to take a guess, I'd say you're bisexual. Hopefully that's it, because it's pretty awesome to be bisexual! But it's hard to say for sure. Do you almost always fantasize about guys when you masturbate?

The one thing I do know is that if you're honest with yourself - and judging by that post, you are - you'll figure it out eventually. Have fun with whoever you end up wanting to sleep with!

 

hes fucking BI
he likes both guys and girls.

 

lol, if you have some doubts about what sexuality you are, your probably full blown gay. No offence, its just fact of life. Don't hide it.

 

By the way you describe it, it sounds like you may be bisexual.

Who cares though, don't worry about labeling yourself. You're young, experiment and have fun!

 

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I do not know if I'm gay as well, I suppose keep pictures of boys that I'm obsessing over is a healthy thing.