He moved out!

I know at least a few of you have been following my series of posts, from my discovery of my husband's infidelity, to our decision to divorce, to him living here and driving me nuts, to now. On Monday, I gave him to the end of the week to get out. And today he left! He still doesn't have an apartment - he's crashing at a friend's - so his junk is still here, but at least he's out! I can start cleaning this place up and it will STAY that way! The diapers will be in the diaper pail, not on the floor, the dirty clothes will be in the laundry basket, the trash will be in the trash can, and the dirty dishes will be in the sink! It's going to be GREAT!

To celebrate, I'm taking Taylor to see Happy Feet tomorrow. Then he's going to spend time with Daddy while I go see a movie ALONE for the first time in my life! I think I'm going to see Saw III.

Three cheers for strong single mamas!!!

 

congrats!!!!!!!!

umm..just 1 thing...theres a strong possibility he'll show up on your doorstep again, just beggin for just 1 more night

good luck and stay strong

 

Already happened - I said no! Now he'll just get on Adult Friend Finder and hook up with random strangers while I move on with my life and have real, grownup relationships.

 

hahaha whew congrats again ..sounds like total dead weight in your life
ya must be floating on air right now

 

I'm be truly relieved once all of his stuff is out of here and I can smudge the place to get all the negative vibes out. For now, it just kinda feels like he's at work. But yes, you're right, he has been dead weight on my life, and now I'm shedding that weight and moving towards my dream.

 

yey! the bastard is finally gone! I'm so happy for you, this guy sounded like a TOTAL and complete loser! Now you are able to embrace your life and your dreams without being tied down by this rock. That's all he is, and he's about as smart as one, too.

 

suggestion..take alllllll his stuff..every last thing..throw it in boxes, and get it outta thrre
you'll feeel sooooo much better once theres not 1 scrap of him left there

and a movie isnt an appropriate celebration..ya gotta think bigger..like the partuy of the century big..ahh 6 months in costa rica..yea thats a better celebration

 

I don't recommend Saw 3. It was ok, but it's not nearly as good as the first or second one!
Happy feet....I want to take Alexis to see that!

 

Well, the REAL celebration was the triangle piercing I got last week. He wanted to see it, but I refused to show it to him because it's for ME and I love it!

I'm going to start packing up all his stuff tomorrow (the only things so far packed are the things I've done, the bum), and piling them in the dining room. That way, once he gets the apartment, he can pick it up quickly and get it out.

I'm in SUCH a good mood right now. Last night, I was so pessimistic because my plans for school seemed like they were totally crashing. By this afternoon, it had all worked out. My plans are on the move, I'm on my own, life is good!!!!

 

lets dance!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Eagle, I love you. I seriously get excited when I see your posts because you're always optimistic and caring and you know exactly the right thing to say.

 

awwww well you just made me smile!
love you too

hugs!!

 

Congrats! Super Awesome-ness! Yay!!

 

soaringeagle is a man of brothery love. I know you can nearly be my dad, but you are sexy.

*it had to be said*

And good riddance to bad rubbish.

 

damn i'm blushin..lol

i'm far from sexy..lol but thnx its nice to hear

 

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

 

HOORAY!!!!!! He's gone. Good for you, Jane. You can get on with the serious business of living your life.

Honey, you are going to be so much happier. It may be hard at first (once the initial rush of freedom wears off, and the bulk or responsiblity is there) but you can DO IT. You are a strong womyn, and you are going to be OK.

 

It's already been tough - I had to leave work sick today and STBX took off and left me with the kid. He's been gone about 5 hours now and isn't answering his phone. He's always been this way - doing absolutely anything to escape responsibility. After he left here, he went back to his friend's house and took a nap while I was left to attempt to take care of a rambunctious toddler and keep my food inside my stomach all at the same time.


I am SO glad this is only a three-day week, then I get to go to my parents' house, where they'll watch the kiddo and I can rest!

I didn't get to see Saw III, by the way. I didn't have the money, because STBX didn't pay one of my bills for three months and I had to empty my savings and most of my checking to get it paid. I did get to take Taylor to see Happy Feet because we had a gift card, and I dressed up a bit for it, so at least I got to strut my sexy self around the mall for a while.

 

that sounds good u need a few days away to just relax and unwind
& i mean unwind
go out in a feild and spin till your dizzy and fallin over giggling
sounds silly i know..but tryit and tell me it doesnt help

 

Believe it or now, I have a date. :H A friend of mine that I've known for five years (and who's been in love with me the whole time) is taking me out to dinner and a movie.