The most hurtful thing said to me really had nothing to do about the content of the words spoken to me, but who said them to me. That's what hurt.when somone you believe to be "on your side" proclaims that they aren't it really, really, sucks...
Yeah it can really hurt when people turn out to be not who you thought they were. Ive discovered that not everybody can be happy,and some of the unhappy ones like to bring people down with them...the trick is to not let them do that.
Once a lyceum teacher told me "and when you'll finally be kicked in the ass out of this school" etc. (cant remember what had to happen after the kicks) . In front of the class. Well this chemistry teacher (Magda C. was her name) was an old, small and unbelievably ugly lady (remember gollum? add a few more hair and thick glasses) and I did nothing for deserving that - i cant remember why she was so upset but she had an earned reputation as an old asshole , equally hated by both teachers and alumni. She loved to carry on her personal persecutions (there was a small number of lucky individuals who enjoyed this special treatment, but no one was safe with that fucking moulded **** around) which from time to time were the reason of some odd accidents for her, like bricks who flew in the night aimed to her back. This is the worst thing i've been told for no reason. Of course i graduated and never got kicked out of school, anyway. AFAIK the scumbag is still around, but she is retired now.
sad! some had told me that ninjas were dumb! i almost shurikened him in the face right then and there!!!!!
After a particularly awful day working for Wal-Mart (I was sixteen... first job... *shivers*) there was an elderly man who was taking a bit of time to write out his check. The woman behind him looked at me and said, "Figures a sp*c can't work a register." Anyway, she called me a racial slur used for those of Hispanic descent. After the old man left, I turned off my light, and quit.
I was upset until I realized that I had just quit a job that I hated. So in a way, I thank her for it.
:cuss: or :furious3: or :anger: I feel blessed to have never really had many hatefull words directed at me !!! I would probably be sad and cry, too.! I know you can decide to either let harsh words affect you or not , but when someone is hateful, it always hurts. (You feel for them and their pain too.) Hope most peoples lives are..............:sunny:.....most of the time.
I don't usually have hateful words directed at me, but there HAVE been times. My choir teacher has said a few mean things to me shes not a very nice person and has a TERRIBLE temper she once heard me singing out of tune and said, loudly, "I should have tested all the people I let into the choir first" lol i was a little angry at first but then i laughed it off. I do that with most of the things that people say to me and once we had to perform at an assembly and i was wearring my keychain/lanyard thingo...I wear it everyday, and it has my locker/home keys and up the material there are all these badges (like over 20 now) and shes like "AND you'll have to take off your badge thing disguised as a keychain that you wear so that everyone can look at you and see - oh thats JANE" i was so shocked :O i was like I WEAR IT COZ I LIKE It!!!!! but i know thats nothing compared to what others have gone through. Ive been called alot of names, especially since i got to high school, especially last year. Put down a lot because of my haircut (i had a mullet last year lol it looked cool tho!!!!) and my clothes, and called fat and ugly sometimes. But i;m over it now, i get over things really quickly sticks and stones eii? peace and love friends Jane
The most hateful thing said to me was by this one dude who i had no problem with. He said it, trying to be funny, but the thing that hurt the most was that my friends stood there and laughed at my ass. im not gonna repeat what he said cause it pisses me off :$ :$ :$