Guys Get GRossed Out??

I'd like to know what guys think about period blood. I was wondering imparticularly because my last boyfriend turned me on so much by 'earning redwings' he'd actually lick the blood off of his fingers. That sounds extremely disgusting, but he acted as though he liked it. Well, when I was flirting with another guy he started fingering me but I didn't tell him it was my time of the month. Guys, would that make you mad?

 

jeez, not telling him? I dunno, I'd at least warn a guy

it's not my favourite cup of tea to do stuff during menstruation. Fingering and things outside the body is alright (though tampons make me extraordinarily dry and pads are about as far from sexy as you can get, imho) but... eh, it's a nice excuse to worry about the rest of your relationship, to focus on foreplay and fun things of the like, to tease without beign able to fulfill right away

 

I have had sex during my period twice in my life. It just grosses me out.

 

really? i love it for real. maybe it is because it is nearly impossible to gross me out. the dirtier the better i think. if a guy can't handle my nasty nature then he just can't impress me.

 

the ole flirt and finger routine eh?

i think i'd want to know in that context. it wouldn't make me mad but i wouldn't think as much of you afterwards. imagine the same scenario with a guy having some gross wort on his finger and you only find out after he's been all up in your space. You'd probably wished he thought more of you to ask if you minded his wort ridden index all over your cervex.

 

it was zooming through my head "i gotta tell him i gotta tell him!" but then i was afraid he'd back down, and believe, i was in nooo position to object to anything he was doing

 

in most cases i'd think it would be in your best interest to inform him but make it clear that he can go ahead if he doesn't mind, and that if he's interested in you you'll still be available in a few days if he's uptight about the blood......i mean, if he's worth it, you can at least wait a few nights, right? plenty of time to have a couple dates first, too, if thats your thing....keep him interested....

anyway, it doesnt bother me so much if it's just sex or foreplay, but....in all honesty, i wouldn't go down on a girl while she had her period. and again, this is assuming i'm aware of whats going on. i'd be kind of irked if she didn't tell me first. and if it was my first time with that girl and she didnt tell me, i can sure as hell garauntee it would be my last time with that girl.

for what it's worth, i've heard orgasms can really help to alleviate menstrual cramps, as well. obviously i wouldn't know, but hey.

 

That has got to be the greatest thing I've ever heard a girl say.

 

Being a bisexual woman, I think it's disgraceful that you didn't tell him. I do not mind playing around during that time, but if I went to finger a chick and she didn't tell me, I'd be very pissed. Some people are really not into it, and by not warning him and giving him a chance to inform you of his likes or dislikes, you were being a very selfish lover.

 

its graceful that she didnt tell him, but you'd be pissed if you were in his shoes.....did you mean disgraceful, or do you care to elaborate further if not?

 

Hahaha yes, I did mean "disgraceful". There's my serious scolding down the tubes!

 

he never gave any reaction actually. after about a min i realized we were giving the neighbors a show so i jumped up and closed the window blinds. he must have wiped his fingers somewhere i guess? after i shut the window i locked my door and layed down casually on my bed next to him and started talking about random things. he's never said anything about it.

 

if he ever brings it up, blame it on his long fingernails and say you didnt bring it up because you didnt want to embarass him that he hurt you, but he owes you awesome oral sex for the inconvenience

 

I would be wondering like why didn't this girl tell me, but nothing stops me, just throw down dark sheets and make sure you don't put your hand up against the wall for support, it will leave a bloody handprint, that will just be too fucked up to explain. I'd sure be pissed though if I got my hands dirty and didn't actually get to the point. Which sounds like is what happened to this guy rofl.

 

'earning redwings'.... eeww eeww eeww... o.k that grosses me out sooooooo much,
sex on my period is fine, but if a guy will lick your blood up there is something wrong with him.. lol

 

Hmm... Would be messy, but I don't know if I'd be "grossed out", per se. I'd have to become more comfortable with the idea of actually tasting it, though. Not something I'd rule out completely, but not something I'd be overly eager to try, either...at least at this point in my life, anyway.

I have no idea. But menstrual blood in itself, I don't think is gross at all. I may become a little startled by the "bloodiness" of it, however. LOL

 

Once I had this guy go down there when I was on my period....we were both drunk and I kept saying "No! No! Im on my period! " but he went to town anyway. I still don't think he realized what the fuck he was doing. He was a light weight drinker....he couldn't keep up with my tolerance at the time! LOL

 

...it sounds kind of gross to me

 

I'm not a guy (clearly), so this doesn't count as much, but I'd be up for it if my girlfriend ever wanted to! I have, like, 0 problem with it

 

lmao!
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you all have excelent responses