gotta be honest

i'm a guy. and i have to admit as i get older i begin to hate the idea of love and sex. because as a guy you come into the world watching porn. and you think yeah, sex must be awesome. but in reality it's not that way, because first of all you need confidence to get with good looking women. secondly you have to learn how to have sex and learn to be a good lover. but more importantly then all of that is women aren't sex objects. guys are basically taught that women are sex objects, therefore they view women that way and focus on sex and sex alone.

and what a wake up call do you get, the real world is nothing like a porno. and i knew that for the most part that women aren't sex objects, and aren't only about sex. but life in general, i don't care about love and sex. i think i would rather be alone and not have to deal with the bullshit. love and sex are a distraction from life. it's added pressure, oh you gotta get laid and you gotta do this and do that. i'm sick of it.

it sucks too because i find this all out kind of late, i wish i could go back in time and know then what i know now. i'm 25 and i recentley found all this out that life is alot harder and more stressful then i previously thought. but especially when it comes to love and sex because i gotta be honest i hate more then i love. i have more hate and disdain for life now then ever, i just don't want to give in to love. i don't need love. fuck love. and fuck societies pressures and bullshit.

 

So......what you're saying is......you're gay...?

 

and it's almost like, in order to succeed in life I have to get into a relationship. i need sex to excel in this world. i need to be saved from a women. and yet it's alot harder to make something happen and i just wanna give up. i just don't have alot of love, i don't have alot of confidence. and it's pathetic but i just want to live alone, be alone. not be a part of society. fuck the world is my motto. i hate it so much because i know i do need love but why the fuck do i need love, what about other people. they don't need it, but i have to get laid to be a man. I HATE IT ALL..

 

and as i type this i know that i can't hide from love either. and i'm not turned off by sex. but i am defintely not very enthusiastic because of my lack of confidence. so pretty much i will complain until love finds me or some wicked nice woman has faith in me or something stupid..but i will learn to love, love. i just hate being this person who gives up and has no control. i should be out there meeting women and trying to make something happen. but i find myself giving up and hating..it's a terrible cycle.

 

You and this guy will be good friends
http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=399191

 

I don't understand. that guy is clearly a lunatic and I am just apathetic towards love. but if you want to try to label me and shut me up fine. i just figured people would try to help in some other way..

 

They probably will...

But you seem like you're not to far away from deciding that everyone else is the cause of your problems, and they're at fault for what on the surface apears to be your flaw, meaning that you're not the weird one, everyone else is. Don't make that decision, or you'll become that guy

nobody likes that guy


Cmon man... You're 25. Things can turn around if you make them. Chill the fuck out.

 

and you're absolutely right. i am turning into "that guy". the loner, who is nervous and mentally unbalanced who is struggling along, hating everyone he comes into contact with, negative defeatist attitude. it's pathetic. and i know i'm better then this. but i already gave up. so the hardest part is getting back on the saddle. but it's so easy to give up and hate, hate is easy. love takes courage. everything we've talked about are cliches'. it truly is pathetic, i know what to do and yet i am falling back to hating my life and everyone else.

 

and yet you know what, i do want to be "that guy". i honestly am starting to learn the ways of people, the way people judge and criticize so easily. it's almost like i stepped back from the motion picture and viewed it in slow motion, i removed myself from the scene and realized how stupid everything is. but now i like it here, i am so comfortable being alone and not dealing with life. not having to live the movie. it's like i can never return, i pick people apart and see everyones flaws. and yet i am the fool, cutting short my future because i am apathetic or lazy or just a fool..then again maybe i am the lunatic. who needs mental help..

 

K man... You know what's up... There's no easy solution, so you have to either settle in to the "I hate everyone" mindset.. Or turn it around. If you choose the former... Nothings getting better anytime soon, so get used to it.

Some people will come in here sometime and tell you how to fix your life... But I'm not one of them. That my piece, and I'm done now.

Peace out

 

but in a strange way, i wanted this. i want to be that guy. because i can forever spite the world. step back from society and be with my own thoughts. i really do, i love being hated. i love being the weird one. because i don't even want to be like them. and yet this is killing me, i am going to die young because of this. i am such a fool. we are fools.

 

Goddamn this is emo

 

You're right though. It's all up to me. I know how to make it better. It's the hardest thing i could do, or the most stressful maybe. but maybe it's not. i don't know, thanks for your input. sometimes i think i am a fool. and there's always fools in society, failures. so i should just accept it and struggle on. or just kill myself. that's pretty much the only option, either give up hating. or i will die young..

 

It is emo. I am definitely emo. and maybe this all is something i have to go through, to experience to get better. OR i am a bigtime fool, loser who is going to go through life struggling on, alone and suffering quietly. haha

 

You are so emo you put the quote AFTER your post

 

haha yeah i did. i don't know. this is kind of a pointless thread considering there was already some crazy guy who posted a thread just like this. although his was a bit more nutty. whatever..

 

my real world is like Porn, its not the greatest either.. yesterday after fucking my Gf's brains out, getting my dick sucked for an hour, fucking again while in pitchers squatter position.. im beat.
i couldnt go to karate today cause that pussy kicked my ass..

 

that's funny. good for you i guess.

 

im still sore, my back aches - ill tell you dont take mushroom, stay up for 24 hr and think your superman with a hard-on... especially if your over 39yrs old..

 

My suggestion is to have a few beers and relax. You are thinking way to much. I'm wondering what the underlying problem is. No money?