Girls first time

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by Samharlow, Feb 27, 2007.

  1. Samharlow

    Samharlow Member

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    Ok hey guys I am 17 years old as Is my girlfriend. Were both virgins up intill a month ago we have had sex 15 times i think. And for some reason she still gets no pleasure , she says it feels uncomfortable, or weird. Can you guys give me some advice thanks! :)
     
  2. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    check out the love and sex forum. do more 4play and oral sex, typically it helps with chicks tho its not a gauranteee. have her read through the ls forum too, its her body not yours, sehs the one whose doign the reacting and feeling (or not feelign, whatever)
     
  3. spooner

    spooner is done.

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    Maybe you're just bad at it.
     
  4. Samharlow

    Samharlow Member

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    Well I don't think that I am bad at it, not to mention that doesn't matter. Because she is suppose to get some sort of pleasure.. It went from hurting with blood, then small amounts of pain, then uncomfortability... So I am wondering what is next.. usually I do eat her out for a little before I get to screwing.. I am not sure maybe it is just a matter of time.

    Thanks for the advice, keep it coming
    Sam.
     
  5. Haid

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    Some women will never be that into sex. Some love it right away. Some grow into liking it as they get older. Inexperience on your part may be playing in as well, read up.
     
  6. KyndMama07

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    The same thing still happens to me and I've been having sex for 2 years now. My husband and I just work through it. It does get pleasurable after a while but sometimes it still hurts and I still bleed sometimes. I've been checked and I have no medical problems.
     
  7. chris_1661

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  8. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    this has what to do with teh question asked? Thats right, nothing. if youve nothign to contribute then just make your own damn trhead to wine about your sexlessness in

    to the OP, its really more her issue than yours. i mean, you can be supportive and awesome and try your best to make it pleasureable and itll be appreciated, but its her body and if its hurting her or not feeling pleasurable then the onus is on her to figure out whats going on. imean, shes in that body 24/7, you arent. does she masturbate? enjoy masturbation? does she orgasm around you, because of you or no?
    like i said before, the love and sex forum http://www.hipforums.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=13 has a lot of information in ti
     
  9. chris_1661

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  10. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    And this is coming from the man who just posted for the entire world to see, that he jerked off in his college washroom into the toilet.

    *rolls eyes*

    *shock*

    THE AUDACITY!
     
  11. chris_1661

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  12. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

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    Samharlow - try giving her a g spot orgasm - PM me if you need instruction.
     
  13. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    I have. PM me for the details.
     
  14. chris_1661

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    I've just sent you a PM for the details, and i'd like to see your reply soon.
     
  15. Loveminx

    Loveminx Sports Racer

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    Wow, I never knew a girl that didn't enjoy it at all...
    I'm sorry, but I bet it will get better with time.
    Just make sure she's relaxed and happy. :)
     
  16. Gregonzo

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    dose the both of you w/ MDMA. Feed her Yohimbe and you eat some ginseng.

    if that doesnt work... turn gay
     
  17. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Most women enjoy more than "little".
     
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