girlfriend may be pregnant

I dont know what to do, shes 12 days late and she has never been late for her period and we are both really stressed out and everything. i dont know i just need some sort of advice or something

 

Yellow pages under 'A'.

 

first off find out if she is actually pregnant before u start getting all crazy.
2nd if she is...sit down nd discuss what u both wana do...seems by the way shes freakin out that she dont really want it and in future fucking strap one on

 

no, neither of us want a kid, im not like goin crazy about it either, im just stressed because im going thru some shit anyway and this on top of everything is stressful and im trying to figure out some ideas to deal with this a little better

 

two words:

planned parenthood

 

A-b-o-r-t-i-o-n

 

go to pharmacy and get a pregnancy test

if she is pregnant, its up to you TWO ALONE to figure out what youre gonna do

 

17 is young. Find out for sure and then let her decide...as it is her body.

 

It's her body but it's not like he will be unaffected by the decision with child support and all. There should be such a thing as financial abortion for men.

 

shes cool with an abortion, she doesnt want a kid ever at this point in time, i dont know if she would change her mind in the future but yeah how much do abortions cost and would her or my parents have to know about it?

 

Depends on where you live.

 

call up your local planned paretnhood n ask em

 

good luck and know either way it will work out. you are young and difficult times may be ahead, having a baby would change both of your lives. if you don't stay together you have to be willing to take care of the baby on your own, as she will too. if you get the abortion then hopefully life may return to 'normal;' or yha'll will change for the better. do what you can and realize this life decision may be difficult but it is not bad or evil in nature. it's a good thing you have to make this decision as it will make your integrity grow whatever you decide. take care

 

Use a condom. Even if your partner is on some kind of pill, it's very possible that they aren't taking the contraceptive properly and regularly. I know I couldn't take the pill consistently at the same time every single day - and I'm a fairly routinized person. It's best to protect yourself with a condom in the future.

Best wishes and good luck!

 

In Ontario there like $1500 but OHIP covers it. Considering she's under 18 I think her parents would have to know.

 

you really think she should have an abortion? what about adoption? theres alot of different options that should be considered.

 

There is only one get out of jail free card.

 

killing a baby? this is life, not a monopoly game! theres people out there who are desperately wanting to have kids, but they cant, and there are people that are meant to have children, but they dont know it yet, and if you do get pregnant, you should keep the baby, you will regret it someday.

i personally know. I got pregnant and the father was just a guy taking advantage of a girl, and i kept it, even though i was the only family member that was a single mother, and i had no idea what the hell i was doing. now, i understand that it was for a reason, i have a great son, and i have so much that ive learned in life.

 

Keep the child. The child will be a little version of you. You won’t regret it.

 

you really wont regret it.