I dont know what's wrong with me but... I cant seem to get wet... I'm always mentally prepared for sex, and 'in the mood' so to speak... but my pussy is non responsive... anyone have any ideas or advice?.... besides just using lube... cos I really want to fix the problem... not just patch over it. Its causing me a great deal of anxiety...
Did you ask your gynaecologist about it? Maybe you should. In fact, i have the opposite problem, which isn't a big problem for me, only a little embarrassing sometimes. I'm already wet when kissing or only talking about sex, lol. Not too good either sometimes cause a lot of men think if you're wet enough they can skip the foreplay. YOU CAN'T, GUYS! Grrr! I'm sorry I don't have better advice, but it might be a problem with your glands or a hormonal thing, so you should really get it checked out!
I know other girls dont get wet, I dated one of them, who even after cuming didnt get wet it's suprising and hard for me to figure out as well. I agree with the two other advice if none of us is qualify to answer your question your gyno is! Let us know greg
I have exactly the same problem... I've just started trying to hunt for a good lube since it doesn't seem to be resolving itself without some help. There are some nice ones out there that aren't all sticky and gross like KY and such.
FORE_PLAY!!!!!! Ok girl. If you arnt gettin wet, your guy needs to get you wet. I have had the prob too.. sometimes you have a "natural" lube, other times, you have to use spit, or store bought shit... But usualy if you have lotsa fore-play then you will get wet.. Are you horney when you have sex??
well thats the problem... I want sex, I have foreplay... but still nothing... no wetness... like foreplay that goes on forever till I think I"m gonna scream in frustration, and still nothing... its really bothering me, because I"m with a new boy.. and I want things to be cool, but my body just boycotts the whole idea everytime!
same thing happens to me....although i've found a couple times that after she's gotten aroused, if you stand up and walk a few steps she will get wet........ other than that, I know no solution other than spit or ky silk-e gel
I think luv gave the best advice, talk about it to your doctor and I think he can suggest you some kind of cleansing lotion, or cream, against dryness. By the way, luv, I have your same , opposite "problem" , sometimes I get wet just chatting with the guy I love ( and I don't mean chatting about sex , LOL ! ) .
i can have this problem too.. it really really sucks... i used to be constantly wet, but lately it's tough... let us know if you see a doc or anything...
flyinglily, maybe we're just too horny! lol That used to really bother me but now i just think it's a part of me, and no guy has ever complained, so I don't care.
Gotta do a lot of masturbation before sex, rub and get excited... sometimes the stuff before sex is important for girls because it helps get them wet.
Are you on some medication that dries out the membranes in general? Some medicines can have that effect... Antihistamine for instance. I've never had any problem with this myself except during the breastfeeding period after having a baby.
