Getting someone to like giving head

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by johnnyshinta, Jul 4, 2010.

  1. johnnyshinta

    johnnyshinta Member

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    My wife absolutely hates giving head. I've tried figuring out what about it she doesn't like and fixing it. Such as the taste of cum. Ok so how bout a flavored condom...nope. Her jaw hurts. Ok just put the head in your mouth and suck and use ur tongue while u jerk with ur hand...not a chance. Any ideas on how to get her to be even ok with it. Like for special occasions.
     
  2. Sam_Stoned

    Sam_Stoned Senior Member

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    Eat a lot of fruit. Strawberries, Pineapple, ect.
     
  3. johnnyshinta

    johnnyshinta Member

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    I've tried that. We even bought this powder stuff that is suppose to help. She said it made it less bad. But not good
     
  4. SweetBlasphemy

    SweetBlasphemy Senior Member

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    Buy her nice things whenever she goes through with it. Women are trainable like that :D
     
  5. freak0Nature

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    it not a matter of making her enjoy giving you head - its matter of you learning to demand your god given right of getting head...

    no - seriously - do you return the favor at all? do you eat her as often as you request head?

    and there's three options spit, swallow, or wear as a prize. your girl seems to prefer the wearing option. go with her natural needs - you can't teach a penguin to fly.
     
  6. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Monkey see monkey do.
     
  7. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    IF YOU ARE SATISFYING HER SEXUALLY

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  8. PonyGrl420

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    Maybe shes just not comfortable with it. A lot of people were raised to think that only whores give head and stuff like that.
    Have you actually talked to her about it?
    If shes not into it dont try and force her, or even push the issue. That will only make it worse.

    The only thing I can think is go down on her, allot, and make her feel better then she ever has before. After all sex isnt all about you, you want the other person to feel as good as you do, so hopefully if she cares she'll want to return the favor.
     
  9. YouFreeMe

    YouFreeMe Visitor

    Some people just hate it, oh well.
     
  10. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    I don't think you want my advice.
     
  11. johnnyshinta

    johnnyshinta Member

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    I try to eat her but she isn't in the mood always. And she doesn't ask for anything. Like if she wants it but we're doing something non sexual she doesn't say anything so a lot of times the moment passes. We even made a deal a long time ago that for ever 10 times I eat her I get a bj. That's the wonder of marriage lol. That deal has never come true
     
  12. deleted

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    ever offer her money?? ... seems like a whorish thing to do, but take the ol' lady bra shopping. not no cheapo bras... Women with nice tits needs bras.. you help her titties get some support, she'll give your dick some support with her mouth..
     
  13. johnnyshinta

    johnnyshinta Member

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    Nah she has plenty of nice bras. And she wouldn't corrolate shopping with that. She woul think I'm just being nice. And if I made the connection she'd slap me in the face
     
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    as I understand this correctly, youre not a muslim?.. :rolleyes:
     
  15. Sam_Stoned

    Sam_Stoned Senior Member

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    She sounds like a fucking bitch, to be honest.
     
  16. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    The lady doesn't like BJ's. You can't talk her into liking them any more than you could talk someone into liking chocolate ice cream. If they don't like it, there is nothing that you can say that will change their mind.
     
  17. freak0Nature

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    but if she likes chocalte ice cream you may be on to something.....

    cover your cock in ice cream....
     
  18. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    sucks to be you..

    actually, wait, no it doesn't :rolleyes:
     
  19. vigilanteherbalist2

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    pressuring her or guilt tripping her are the last things that you want to do. it will make her hate it even more and it will make her resent you.

    she needs to learn the art of getting pleasure from giving pleasure. you should also probably wash your dick, since it most likely smells.
     
  20. Fastswitch

    Fastswitch Visitor

    You'll have to learn how to enjoy the feel of a wet, juicy vagina - not so bad actually. Option 2: a little gay frot on the side. I've been told that an amazing number of guys use each other when mama has a prolonged headache or is without appreciation opf a variety of sex acts. Just sayin....
     
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