Getting sexually excited over girls

And who doesn't love a hugaholic?

The man who who loves what he loves and is turned on by what turns him on is a rare breed these days...

So sad we have gone down the path of being told what is sexy and believing we are sick for feeling real soulful attraction...

Perhaps its my generation but when I was back in the early years of high school I saw so many boys vilified if they ever expressed attraction to something other than barbie or her other ethnicity countertypes. They learnt pretty quickly that their natural attraction wasn't "the way" and bought into the social illusion of beauty bullshit.

Oh well... We can only walk our path and hope others find their way...

Peace

 

i totaly agree with you there
its bad enough that guys get forced into this false need to only be attracted to 6 foot blonds with boobs bigger then theyre heads & a waist u could wrap your hand around
but it also causes perfectly beautiful girls to feel not only ugy & inferiur but to hate themselves passionately

it really upsets me to see such beauty seen as ugliness just because society holdsupthis ideal of what u should find sexy

 

It's good to know we of the elven realm are loved and sexy to some...

Thanks man, I feel lovely now

But back on topic... how did you come to place of being so comfortable and in tune with what you love?

Its so sad to see the Original poster so stressed out about being attracted to someone who naturally resonated with him?

Maybe it would be helpful for him to know your journey...

Peace

 

elves and feary folk are damn sexy

1 of my ex's i was so overwhelmingly attracted to because she had such an odd quirky elfishness to her
i mean she looked like she could live in a knot in a tree
definately not a supermodel type thank god..but she was really beautiful & sexy to me
dwarfs can be sexy too, but trolls arent really my thing

pixies though...pixies are really what drives me crazy

 

Yeah ppl tell me all the time I look like I just crawled out from under a mushroom...

I used to hate myself so intensely for not looking like other girls but elves certainly aren't girls and I'm trying to accept that. So I'm just stepping into mys-elf you see!

Lots of love brother...

Namárie, tenn' enomentielva, Mellon...

 

hmm thats a really good question
cause i remember when i was 12 or so the only 'sexy' things being exposed to were playboys & stuff the neighbour had stashed in the woods.. but most of the women id ended up with were nothing like that at all, and the couple who were were just kinda empty & shallow
and i guess i always just looked deeper then skin for more substance
and most of the time when id be attracted to a persons personality theyre body type was more ..well shorter petite smaller breasts and faces that were more unique..and it was lil things like a more angled chin or thinner lips.. just lil details that made them different from other girls that really caught my eye
sometimes its even just a certain attitude i just learned that your attracted to who your attracted to..& just cause everyone around you only likes bleached blond big breasted bimbos doesnt mean that i had to be that stupid too
i also noticed a trend then that ppl who believed in the myth of whats ideal or suposed to beattractive tended to be realatively stupid..& the more they were obsessed with mounstrouse breasts or tons of makeup the lower theyre iq was

so i guess the point is that just accepting your natural attractions instead of just accepting what your suposed to feel is beautiful not only is the smarter choice but the happier one as well

hope that made a tiny bit of sence its almost 5 am & not thinking too clearly..lol

 

you changed your post at least 3 times i saw..lol
but i havent seen what ya look like ..but i know your beautiful..and sexy.. you ooze beauty..the flesh is only a wrapper the beauty within..
you can wrap shit in shiny paper & a fool will think its the best gift ever
or you can wrap a diamond in a crumpled paper bag and you'll only see the beauty if you look within
love the elf within you
i do

 

You too friend....
And on that note I have to finish work and get off this computer...

Keep on shining,
Peace

 

dream beautiful elf dreams i'll picture you sleepin confy under your mushroom