I know this is probably the wrong category, but I don't know what category this question could go on in this forum. I have been talking to this guy for about a month now. We text and talk on the phone, but we've never met, even though I knew of him before we started talking (long story). We are talking about hooking up and having some fun, but both of our houses are off limits (another long story) so were talking about trying to get a hotel. We have no problem of actually getting one because he's over the age of 21, but I'm only 19 and still live at home, so I can't just say, 'hey parents, I'm going to a hotel for a weekend to have some fun with this guy, be back in a few days!' So how can we try to pull this off? Any ideas? If we do this it will only be a overnight thing.
Don't do it. You've heard him on the phone (or internet) when he knows that he he "on". Now he wants to get you alone. Be cautious. If you must, you pick the hotel, make sure that people can hear you scream from your room. Tell your parents what you are doing, give them the number of the front desk. And a time in the AM when you will call them to check in. P.S. don't get in his car, you drive yourself to and from.
you don't have to be 21 to get a hotel room now, do you? why don't you meet once or twice in a safe place before fucking? most hotels i've been in, people can hear you breathe from your room...
We want to meet and hang out at least before we do this. And I honestly don't think he's going to try to hurt me? Even though we have never met, we KNEW OF EACH OTHER before we started talking and I honestly don't believe he will try anything like that on me.
Fuck that dude, or let him fuck you.. you have already been sharing an email exchange for ???.. there are 100's of way to track peoples whereabout after a crime scene.. you aint gonna die.. probability of hostile hook up, 1 in 500 Thats low considering you aint no innocent person traveling to hotel yourself anyways, Get a band aid wide size place a razor blade against your skin. you will least have a close range weapon to take out an Eye. If your assaulted, or attacked its possible the attacker will give you time to relax with them. let them wear themselves down on you as long your not life threatening harmed. better to live with a little shame than be dead.
yea i'd say meet first, not just for safety reasons but you know just to meet. gives ya something even more to look forward too when you do go to the hotel(=
