Gettin girls while your high?! too HARD lol, HELP

hey, so last night i got stoned and i noticed that my game with the ladies lol is wayyyyyyyyy wayyyyyyy better when im sober, cuz when im high i get paranoid i think about like what if i do somethin stupid, and i just cant target my brain on a logical thing to do to get a step closer with a girl, when im sober it works soooo smooth hahaha, anyways im fuckin disappointed!!! what do u guyz do?!

like last night this girl was all over me, she was acting tiered while i was sittin down she was standin up and she put her head on my sholdier and instead of bein like u could sit on my lap or sit next to me or somethin like that, i fuckin just laughed like an idiot!! wtf is wrong with me, lol then we went down stairs to b alone, and instead of sittin down i layed down on the couch (takin up all the room) thinkin she would lay down next to me on the couch or somethin lol, idk just my logic with the ladies when im high is just terrible


how do u guyz work with it?

 

she was very decent, and i just fuckin blew it lol!! wtf!! im angry, but ill c her around still so maybe i could make it better

she deff likes me, but i gotta stop gettin stoned when im tryin to get girls cuz that shit doesnt work lol,


when i laghfed like a retard when she put her head on my sholdier she like laughfed too and took her head off, i felt sooooo Retarded, i felt like i got no common sense or im just terrrible with the ladies like the WORST ever! haha...

but i guess when im tryin to get girls im just stayin sober from now on

 

Dude you jsut gotta have that pimp in your head. Kind of liek a concience but its not in THAT head lol I am so much more mackin when I'm high or drunk cause I just say "fuck it" and go for it. Normally I'm more shy, which is one of the reasons I love my ganj! lol The only problem is sometimes i forget what I'm talkin about lol But most girls understand as long as they know i'm high.

 

dude i feel like an idiot when i talk to anyone when im stoned. especially the ladies. but like budtoker im more shy around people when im sober, but when im drunk i'll talk to anybody.

 

i personally dont like to get very high at parties, i may take a hit or two just to get a little buzz on and i find that being just a little bit high mixes perfectly with alcohol. I have gone to parties and just smoked,its fun at the time but afterwards you sometimes find yourself incapacitated, wich is not very fun. Of course you are high at the time and it seems great but you wake up saying "damn, shouldnt of smoked as much" atleast thats how it is for me

 

i cant talk to chicks at all when im stoned, but when im drunk im just one happy mutha fucka... it helps to not give a fuck about them tho...

 

I always have the same problem, soon as I get high I get nervous around girls. Can't think of what to say fast enough, or I think i look retarded.

But when I'm drunk.. its a hole different story

 

I know I have wayyy more game when I'm buzzed (not drunk), but I have yet to try to mac a girl while I've been high. I've been with girls while high, but I was already 'in' before we both smoked.

 

That's why you just need to not give a shit. Like, jsut say w/e you think is good to say. If you don't get in then awell, if you do then great. Girls like guys better when they aren't self-concious anyway.

 

its the shit getting high with girls, i hav sum hectic seshs with like 2 guys n maby like 8 -10 where i live in my street there 4 chicks that smoke n they come 2 mine or i go to theres n just choof, i would maby get with one of them but the rest i hav known them for way 2 long, i grew up with them so its just 2 hard to b more n a friend

i ges on a side note it is kinda hard to talk to a chick who isnt stoned, when its happend to me my mind is normaly blank i just cant think of shit 2 say or do.
gettin drunk at partys n havin g o e(cheep mans speed) its probly one of the best buzzs and u could hook up with queen if u wanted 2

 

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Shit, I know the feeling I learned my lesson my junior year. I was chilling with this senior chick, she was cool as hell, looked good as hell too. I made the mistake of getting very very high with her. I was acting stupid and goofy as fuck. Totally blew it, I kicked my own ass for weeks over that one ahha. Drunk, now, shit, I just let my natural shit flo. Not shy at all aha.

dodgeskitz, Ya I knwo this one girl, she really cool and I've known her forever so I could never really do anythign with her, idk why, she looks good and she really use to like me, I just can't mess aroudn with a girl I've known a real real long time.

 

What if you fell in love with that person?

Y'all just need to not worry about what the girl thinks. Just act natural (as long as your not totally dorky lol) and you will have a better chance, even when high. Onc eyou think too much and get nervous, thats when shit doesn't go right.

 

I do love her, thats why I know we can never be together, becuase someone will hurt someone and we'd never be friends again. I know she'll be my friend and thats good enough for me.

Nah, dude, first impressions are a big thing I'm totally not myself when I'm high, I'm loud, spacy, goofy, and lazy.

 

I dunno man. If you truely love her and she does too then I would definetly go with it if I were you. She could be your true love, you never know. Have more faith that your love would get through the hurts and you would still love eachother.

Yeah I hear ya lol. But I am always rather indiferent, that way if I get the girl then great, if I don't then its ok. I just act the way I feel like acting (without going overboard) and chicks seem to dig it.

 

Who knows, if it was ment to happen I guess it will, but maybe it wont.

 

Well you gotta let it happen my man! Can't just expect it to BAM, it needs a little push by you and her. I know what you feel though man cause I've been in love twice man. I used to love this one friend but then she totally changed before I grew the cohones to say anything. I love another one of my friends...like absolutly LOVE her, but she is with a guy and I know she doesn't love me so I am fine being friends with her. If she had feelings for me though I wouldn't be fine being just friends cause I know I would need to oppurtunity to try to make it work. Sometimes you gotta take chances, especially in the case of love. I know I will tell my friend I love her one day, probablly when she doesn't ahve a BF she supossedly "loves" lol. But do what you feel is right in your heart man.

 

I just got out of a real messed up long messed up relationship so I don't think now would be the best time. But right on man, I understand.

 

Lol good cause when I read that post over I thought I sounded stupid lol. But as long a syou get my point.

 

being stoned around a girl you like usually makes you feel like a lazy stupid bong-rat, i hate being stoned around my girl now.