so i started a new job about a month ago & i've been just starting to really get to know some of my co-workers. anyways there's a girl that i work w/ that lives down the street from me & she's come over a few times. so last night we hung out together & just stayed awake all night talking & what not.. she's pretty cool but also a little wierd. she just got out of a 2 year relationship & i think she's still obsessed w/ her ex a little bit.. she lived w/ him & he just kicked her out a month ago. well, i think i may know why.. she seems pretty unstable && she's really touchy feely as well. last night for the first time we got a little physical & then she starts asking me all these personal questions like when i want to get married & if i want a relationship right now, etc. i find her attractive, but also like 20 lbs overweight (fitness is kinda important to me seeing as how i exercise pretty frequently & i'm in good shape). the question is should i just go w/ the flow even though i don't want to get serious w/ her, or should i just stop hanging out w/ her?? i think she'll get attached really easily & i don't want to hurt her. also, would it just be too wierd working w/ her if it didn't work out?? OR is this good for her, a rebound from her last relationship?? he's really messed up && tells her that he loves her (tries to sleep w/ her) && then just treats her like shit.. ne ways let me know your opinion
I think people shouldnt play with other people's emotions. If you are sure about how you feel let her know, you're not looking for anything serious and you just want to chill and have fun. If she's willing then great, if she's not, then great. You have no feelings for her, so nobody gets hurt, there will always be another girl who is on the same page as you, but dont let her think that things might be different than what they really are.
yes this is very true. communication and honesty are so very important in relationships. I've seen so many people trapped because they are too afraid to voice the truth...
good advice.. i think i will let her know next time she comes over. also there's another girl that i work w/ that i am A LOT more interested in. you think this could ruin the potential between us down the road sometime??
It could, but not necessarily, it all depends on how she thinks, but most likely if she really likes you and is not good friends with the other girl I dont see why there would be a problem. Though you may want to expand your horizons and stop dating people from work, people can get all weird after things end.
lol i think she will do good.. just didn't wanna do ne thing like that till i get things straight w/ her. she's like a nympho lol.. she wanted sex this morning (didn't explicitly say so, but i think "i'm soo horney right now" is a good indicator lol) last time she came over she got loaded & told me some pretty freaky stuff..
so we had a little to drink last night && i told her that i'm basically not even remotely interested in a long-term relationship.. && she was really cool with it :cheers2: (she said "i'm just really glad you're being honest"; more than once, in different ways) oh yeah (earlier in the night, because of the movie we were watching) she said something to the extent "women all have a psychological issue, where when a man, willingly or unwillingly (death) leaves their life.. they just have to get fucked by another guy; to make them feel like he never left" is this strange?? cause i'm definitely cool w/ it
yeah.. it's funny that you say so bc she really likes biting/being bitten. i told her last night that i was onto her..
well... i'm not sure exactly what stalk meant, but i was thinking that she's an energy vampire... always sucking up other people's energy... but yeah... maybe she really is a vampire....
yeah.. i think i attract energy vampires.. or maybe they attract me. she has been keeping me up really late.. (but i don't know if this is what you mean lol)
kind of what i meant... but i was really speaking about how she was so quick to latch onto you and how you said she is still obsessed with her ex... she's just looking for people's energy to suck up....
fun is fun for all who intend it.. & i do. i'm not worried about crazy girls.. i need a girl that can keep up w/ me (but this does sound too good to be true). the last two days she hasn't said ne thing more about the marriage && if it comes up again i'll definitely take your advice mystical.
