fucking shit

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Crystalsatreehugger, Jul 2, 2009.

  1. Crystalsatreehugger

    Crystalsatreehugger Member

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    so I lost my job over some bs that I didn't do, self medicated, and now my man is wanting me to leave?

    4 years I've dealt his shit. One screw up fuck me. I just want to get drunk

    fuck people
     
  2. kmarcher87

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    He wants to break up because you lost your job??
     
  3. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    dude if you put up with his shit for this long, leave his ass. Go with a friend or parents. just go. you dont need it. the no job shit is the bottom barrel. actually you know what? do you pay for where you live? KICK his ASS OUT lol
     
  4. DazedGypsy

    DazedGypsy fire

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    i'm so sorry to hear that :(
     
  5. gEo_tehaD_returns

    gEo_tehaD_returns Senior Member

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    Sounds like there's more fighting than loving in that relationship anyway. May be for the best.
     
  6. mastercylinder

    mastercylinder Banned

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    sorry to hear that crystal---yeah get drunk today be hung over tomorrow and figure what your gonna do after that---wish u the best on finding a job and a man who cares about you---
     
  7. Guest 157586

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    hmmm sounds like a bad situation before hand either way.
     
  8. Istar

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    Thats screwed up. Hope you find someplace, Which will probably be better for you in the long run.
     
  9. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    He Kicks you when you are down, sounds like a real prick
     
  10. Crystalsatreehugger

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    I'm taking my house back. Been homeless almost a week but I'm back and me and the lawn lord have a plan to kick him out. I paid everything 4 years and he's been fucking around, using me, stealing from me, and telling me he loves me.

    Your about to see an amazon bitch come out of me.
     
  11. Crystalsatreehugger

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    p.s. and we were so fucking happy before this!!!! couples fight but he's been playing his cards. Smiling at me with that look of love in his eyes, getting me to order him a 300 dollar ipod, i love you baby i love you that, forget i owe u one grand i stole for drugs, oh yea... and i thought i was pregnant and all of a sudden fuck you get out. i never cheated, been a rock for him, and now he wants to steal my life. fuck him
     
  12. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    you go girl

    he'll realize what a loss, huge loss he took
     
  13. atla23

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    Yeah he sounds like a loser.

    It goes to show you once again that woman are horrible judges of character.

    Then again maybe i just watch too much judge judy.

    Anyway like i said he sounds like a loser. Hope things get better for ya.
     
  14. Crystalsatreehugger

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    girl called and admited the affair, and told me what a loser i am and how she did me a favor. what a bitch. EVEN HOW GOOD IT WAS.

    he denies it of course and wants to get back eventually but not right now.

    either way this is fucking with my head.

    think i'm going to allgood to blow off some steam. it sucks i still love him but at the same time i swear to god i wanted to kill him earlier.

    love sucks, it hurts good people while the bad can walk off smiling, happy they wreaked your life, even BRAGGING.
     
  15. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    Yeah tell me about it. My boyfriend breaks up with me and then treats me like I'm the evil one. He couldn't get up on his own, cook a fucking scrambled egg, say thank you, shower on a daily basis, he stole from my family, and its the same shit I think he cheated to whole time of course he won't admit it. All I know is I want all my shit back I don't care if he has to sleep on the floor and a bug crawls in his ear and devowers his whole head. What gets me is he wants to be friends, but when we talk he treats me like some demented bitch.

    That guy doesn't deserve you, you get your house back, and take him to court for stealing from you.:cheers2:
     
  16. Crystalsatreehugger

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    I know just today he told me we weren't done for good and loves me more than life itself. He then comes in my room when I'm trying to sleep, feeling around my body for the phone, freaks me out, and I tell him it's not cool anymore, your not my man. But I give him the phone, even though earlier I told him I not comfortable with him asking me for things anymore, give in anyways, but I tell him I just changed MY TOP 5 for my own uses now, freaks out, throws the phone at me, tears the room apart and tells me HE'S gonna kick me out, then leaves But lets not forget it's his fault all my damn minutes are up since he would never let me use it.

    Good riddance, his anger problems are not my fault and I fully realize that now. I hope he's with that bitch b/c they deserve each other. But the great thing about it is, for me, is I'm getting him evicted, he has no money, his bitch is 19 and living at home with no money, she's gonna whore on him b/c that's what she does, and I get to see his life fall apart from his own damn dirty fault, and build my back up b/c good fucking wins in the end.

    I guess god answered my pray. Just didn't see it at first
     
  17. sophieclair

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    Exactly, we're better off without these fools. I just wish he was falling on his ass. He has a job waiting in MA and a place to stay for free. But I have something he doesn't, a family that will always be there for me. I deserve better then a guy who can't stop drinking for one week and needs it so bad that he would rather drink then eat. I can't believe I let him steal from my family, cause I thought oh its love it will be ok. I was wrong and I told them about it today they aren't mad at me atleast.
     
  18. Crystalsatreehugger

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    update. got dressy as fuck and went out (he went berserk) but he doesn't know it's girls and gay guys, I told his its none of his busy but I'm not fucking anyone, I'm not like that. Got jealous as fuck and said he'd fuck up anyone that came to the door.

    but he told me to live my life while he lives his, separated. hypocrite?
     
  19. sea of grass

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    What a prick! It's amazing what happens when people show their true colors. Sounds like a total, toxic user and you're better off without. Although it does suck for you because when it comes to matters of the heart there is no such thing as logic sometimes, and I understand how this whole experience could fuck with your head and heart. BUT, karma is a bitch I say. Your suffering now will come back in good things for you, while his being a bastard will come back to him negatively. You're young and beautiful, and from what I can tell strong and independent. Plus I always tell myself this because, well, I have a tendency to end up with the wrong guys too and think my love could help them change...there are so many awesome people out there who won't treat you like dirt. Well, I hope all goes well with the eviction. I mean, it's one thing to amicably break up and stay friends with someone when a relationship just didn't work out, it's completely another to keep trying to use someone and abuse them. Cutting this guy out of your life is the best decision. Good luck with everything, sis, you'll do great! And the bitch he's fucking on the side actually did do you more of a favor than she really knows, ha!
     
  20. Istar

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    So he is screwing around and doing whatever he likes, and apparently with a 19yo. Which he left you for .. .or mean tried to kick you out for.. And you go to a party to relieve stress and have fun for yourself and all. And he gets mad ? and wants to tell you what to do, while he lives his seperate life ~

    A thousands things come to mind, in which would realy hit hard.. But I'm a bit to mean on that side, so will keep quiet =P.
     

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