So, Im currently single. And this guy who Id talked toa couple of times before in just a friendly way has shown a ltitle interest in me (he was having relationship problems, I was tyring to convince him tos taywith his girl for a while longer and see how things turned out, he said he thought hed have to break up with her because he was feeling butterflies just sitting in a dark car with me when he was dropping me off, aiee). Hes super cute, Im interested back, but I cant seem to find a nice way to ask if he broke up with her or not. Im interested but I dont wanna chase him all over teh place, just show interest back. Ive called him a couple times to go out for coffee or whatever, he called me back once when I left amessage... ill send him emails but he doesnt really like responding by email so its an iffy communication method. Blah, I just wnat to know if hes single too so we can flirt with one another without me feleing bad for his girlfriend, yknow?
yes, there is nothing better than being upfront. However, if this were me, knowing what I know now about people in general and about myself, I would not persue a romantic relationship with him. From what you describe thus far, you are in for heartbreak.
I'd definitely tred carefully if I was you. It sounds like you could be a rebound and he may do the same to you in future...
if he's calling you then chances are he's more then interested in YOU. which could also tell you that he if was ever in a relationship with you, he might do the same thing to you that he's doing to his current lover. i feel butterflies around all the guys i hang out with to though. you can be in a relationship with somebody and still feel the need to earn there acceptance. kind of like a girl who has a boyfriend but then goes to work and flirts with all her co-workers because it makes her feel good about herself. it's a completely natural feeling. just do what's in your heart and only time will tell. dannayelli
