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so i love the friends i have, but i dont have a whole lot in common with them. my mom wants me to do things more, but i dont know what. i dont like the same movies, music, shows, hobbies and things like that. i dont know what to do. any ideas would help.

 

I'm kinda in the same situation as you. I love the people I hang out with at school.. But.. at school only. I don't think I've ever had any urge to hang out with them after school or on weekends, for the same reasons as you. My mom is allllllways on my ass about going and hanging out with friends from school but... Doesn't sound very intriguing to me. Doesn't seem to help that I'm pretty much isolated in a really small little village nowhere near town...

I just learned to appreciate my time alone. Works for me.

 

haha, most if not all of my friends that I've made in my new school so far are youth group-loving christians..

beat that. :sunglasse

 

HASHAHAHHh .

oooooh . hash. ahhhhah.

ok well. good luck with that, chuck.

 

i made no friends :H

but in any event...you could always try joinging a club or something, or if no good clubs exist, try starting one, and even if you only get like one or 2 to come, and the school group falls out, you then have met one or 2 people whom you share somethign in common with

 

just be patient. theres somethings you cant really control. im sure sometime soon youll be goin out so often your mom will be tellin you to stay home more.

 

All my friends party too hard.

 

i have frieds who party hard, friends who party moderately and friends who don't party at all....it depends what kind of a mood i'm in

 

fruit bat-i live in the middle of nowhere too!!
soulrebel-im a youth group-loving christian, you got a problem with christans?
Burbot-im in speech and band, but those dont help all that much
Wayfaring-i know, once i get my licence i'll be able to get out more
spooner-only like two of my friends drink a little, not big party animals

 

nope. i just dont even slightly believe, and most christians i've encountered seem to have a problem with that.

 

yeah, ok, ya...i guess it was probobly a little more helpful that my intrests were filmmaking, and drama...so it was easy to get out and do stuff with that

haha, chuck i love you and your mick jagger lips

 

i dont have mick jagger lips.

 

who cares, i love ya anyways

 

cool, i love ya too, trevor.

 

yeah, sadly theres a lot of christians who are like that. just dont hate them because they hate you.

 

why? that seems like a very logical reason to hate someone.

 

but that just creates more hate, and we dont need any more of that.

 

it's just matching the feelings. if i hate the person that hates me, it just means i don't give a fuck about how they feel. if i allow people like that to walk all over me, well, you get the idea.

 

thats great, i dont know why