friends with benifits relationships...

i am in a friends with benifits relationship.. any advice.. and if anyone has been in one what was your experience with it?

 

just be careful it may turn into an actual relationship. otherwise, have fun, no harm done.

 

don't fall in love

 

I have sorta had one of those I guess. Me and the boy were both "kinky," I guess you would say, so we got to experiment...But then it got to be weird because I started to really like him and he was just in it for the "fun."

 

When I was in high school, I did not date. In fact, I was pretty much opposed to it. However, I had a lot of Friends w/ Benefits realtionships to provide the sexual satisifaction that I lacked from bowing out of traditional dating norms. I called 'em Fuck Buddies, though.

Anyways, some of best advice I can give you is always monitor the progression of your "relationships". Quite often, one partner begins to have stronger feelings for the other. And, in these sorts of relationships, that may not be reciprocated. I was forced to end a few "Benefriendships" as well as real friendships because my partner wanted more. And I didn't.

I think it's important to lay down the ground facts in the beginning. If you are definitely not interested in pursuing more than sex/fooling around, let that be known from the start. That way, there's less chance of confusion (or hurt feelings). Be upfront about your intentions.

Some people cannot handle these sort of situation too well, so watch out. Choose your buddies wisely and remember, you're supposed to be having fun. Use this experience to experiment and find out what truly thrills you in the bedroom.

Good luck.

 

i have a friend who i really like, but i know we cant be together so i try not to start anything, i just let it happen. but its hard cos he's just so amazing. we've ony had sex twice and have been the best shags i've ever had!!