Foreskin BJ issues

My guy is intact, and I love to play with the extra skin, but one thing I love to do is give BJ's. I can't do it with him because, even though he cleans himself, the smell and taste are too off for me to enjoy it. He just uses water to wash himself, and I think he should use soap but he says it burns if soap gets on the sensitive skin when the foreskin is pulled back.

Is there any way around this? Is there any soaps that are good to use? I've thought about buying a girl-down-there soap that has a good pH balance with no fragrance and have him try that, but I don't know where to start to find that sort of soap.

Or does this mean I need to suck on candy and hold my nose in order to enjoy one of my favorite sexual pastimes?

 

Your friend is full of NCarolina Bullshit - which I believe I've heard is really negative! Dump the liar. Sorry, but that's the sorriest excuse for lazy showers that I've ever heard. Since I was 4 or 5, I have followed mother's advice (gleaned from a pediatrician) and double soaped the whole package including the head under the pulled-back-to-the-extreme-limit 4skin. It has, I will admit, led to a wank or two, but the area must be kept clean, no matter the sacrifice. Tell him to shower with lye soap (I've done it at grandma's when young) or get lost. "It hurts soooo...," doesn't sound too manly to me. And of course the biggest reason he should do it is out of respect for the woman he loves, regardless of any temporary smarting (which I still refuse to believe!) You really need to look elsewhere for you lovin', gal.

 

Yeah, it sounds like he is bullshittin you. Just tell him, "No more BJs untill you start washing dumbass" and I bet at the drop of a dime his ass will be in the shower.

 

BS.

My fiancee was told by his dad to pull his foreskin all the way back and use soap and thats what he does. Your boyfriend is just lazy.

 

You're going to get the same thing from everybody here. What the f**k is he talking about. Male genitals are similar to female genitals. We all need to wash. I mean, my god, it's not like it's a big job. I'm an intact male. I don't even think about it. I never have any nasty stuff there because washing just happens. In my personal case I shower every morning, steam and shower after my workout then shower before bed.

Your BF is a pig.

 

The only time something burns to put down there is shaving cream. Thats the only thing that has ever burned for me. I know I am female, but seriously its not like it burns that bad. Or I would quit doing it.

 

I should dump someone because they don't use soap on a sensitive part of their body, and he must be lying to me? Do you have any idea of stupid that sounds?

If anyone can answer my questions, I'd appreciate it.

 

I think you did get the answer, your man needs to keep his junk clean, if it is that sensitive chances are there is an infection, so he will need to clean it and keep it clean, have him try baby shampoo the no more tears kind. P.S. He could quite easily give you an UTI with his dirty weiner.

 

have him go to the doctor there could be something serious going on with his dick.

 

I agree with the posts above, a few very good things were pointed out

#1. He's lying to you.

#2. Your at risks of catching a infection if your getting boned by a dirty cock.

 

They (and I, an uncut man who washes his dick with Kirks, a very strong soap) have answered your original question. And I didn't think any of the answers given sounded stupid.

Now let me answer your more recent question.

YES, dump any guy who lies to you.
YES, dump a guy who expects you to suck his nasty cock (Unless you want to - I like a little smell of smegma myself).

Like to add: You didn't describe the smell. Smegma is one thing, fishy or other foul smelling would indicate a microbe at work and a doctor visit would be in order.

 

Washing your cock is no different than washing any other part of your body. Skin is skin. Unless you have an open wound or infection of some kind there is no way soap can cause burning.

 

Just have him wash it.


Soap doesn't hurt.

 

Bullshit!





Have fun, play safely, and don’t play with fire!

 

Would you really want a person that you had to force into washing their private parts?

For Trolls, unwashed genitals are a deal breaker!



Have fun, play safely, and don't eat your honey if it smells bad!

 

You really like that picture dont you?

 

Yes I do like it because it is so very appropriate at times.



Have fun, play safely, and don’t play with fire!

 

BUUUUUUUULL SHIT!!!!!!!!
he is just a nasty SOB

 

if he is complaining about soap burning his wang and you want to try a pH balanced 'girl-down-there' soap, i would suggest summers eve. you can buy it at almost any drug store, either in the cosmetic aisles or the aisles with pads, condoms, pregtests, etc.

just keep in mind, that you have to read the bottle first.. some are pH balanced at 7, and some are pH balanced to the pH levels of a vagina. read before you buy.

 

I'm uncut and I wash under the skin every morning. He's lying about it burning and he's lazy.