First love

please share your opinions & expieriences. Do you ever really get over your first real love?

 

nah dude.

the moment you discover you're over love is the moment you discover that it wasn't love in the first place.

 

I was 15 and he was 17. Ill always love that guy in the way i love a friend...

But it broke off that year, and when we met again this year(when i was 17 and he 19) there was just no romance or attraction anymore. He wanted to make it work but i knew it couldnt. So, thats it.

Xx

 

i was 14 when i met my first love and i don't think i will ever really get over him
at the time i was living in a very very small town and my life wasn't exactly nice or sweet.. i wasn't going to school anymore and i worked full time with my father.. i met this new yorker with a thick accent and a bad attitude.. oo just my type
lol.. so i fell for him.. and he told me he would take me away from all the things that were hurting me.. he got a job in a neighboring town and i drove him back and forth whenever he needed.. and then one day he tells me that i don't need to come for him anymore.. that he had found another girl..
i was so crushed but i was almost 16 by that time..
he will always hold a place in my heart.. because even if he didn't feel the same for me he was everything i needed at the time
dumb huh....

 

Time...

 

No, but I'm not sure if my first boyfriend is my first real love or my present one is, I think I just saw my ex as best friend (its almost a year ago, I still miss him)

 

Not quite sure what to say about this. I believe that I was in love with my first real boyfriend when I was 15. We went out for 2 1/2 years. He was talking marriage, I was 17 at the time. I am 21 now. He's engaged. The only thing I know is that we are two differently people and say if he was single now and met again, I don't think it would be anymore than friends. Yet I'm not sure if it was love or not. Only because I jumped into another relationship so quickly. But I believe that was simply just a taste of what to come when I finally meet my match of true love. Nothing will be better than that.

 

My first real love is my current boyfriend. Before I met him I thought that I had already experienced love, but i was so wrong. I'm madly in love with him and I know that if we ever brake up he'll always have a special place in my heart.

 

I totally agree with that.

 

Yep, I will always have feeling for him because he was so great, but it would never work now.

 

well, i am with my first love right now. i thought i loved other ppl but now that i have met him, i kno it was not love....


and i doubt i could ever get over him, cuz i absolutely cannot imagine my life without him. i wanna spend the rest of my life with him.

 

One nice thing about never having been in a relationship that wasn't seriously bent is that anytime you look back on the ones that ended all you ever feel is releif.

 

so what does that say than??
that we are all doomed to sulk over our first loves for the rest of our lives?

 

does everyone agree with this?^

 

Nah. I think everybody in the world loves everybody else. I think that's why we treat each other so shitty so much of the time.

I think what we call "love" is what happens when you meet someone you trust enough to let them in on it.

I don't know if love is forever but I know trust comes and goes.

 

I agree. I the my fist bf was it but it was just the fact the I got a bf that made me hyped up. My first real love is my current and forever gf. I didnt realize I lovedthis and when I saw my ex again I just thought of him as a friend cause I no feelings towards him. She is my first gf and first love. No other ex can ever top her or if any furture gf they still cant top her.

 

no.

eventually you get use to the loss. One day you wake up and instead of crying, you smile. The feelings of rejection, humiliation, and sadness all fade. Once they have, all you're left with are the remnants of love.

I'm going to wager a guess and say you've just been unlucky in love?

 

Nah i dont sulk over it. I keep the beautiful memories, and seem to have lost the others somewhere along the way.

Xx

 

Wow, i seem to have read lots of very profound and meaningful sentences today...and these are some of them thanx

Xx

 

im not sulking..
it was great!
he was great!!
or at least until he wasn't great anymore.. lol
i think its not a bad thing to have loved and lost.. it doesn't mean you can't love again...