okay guys.. I gave a guy head for the first time last weekend. I was out with my friends, having a pretty good time (i.e drinking too much vodka) and one of my friends.. and i use this term loosely, as in i only really talk to him when i'm out.. made a move on me. I was pretty drunk so i let things go pretty far.. i let him finger me (which i'd never let anyone do before) and then he was trying to get me to go back from the club to his house.. but instead i gave him a bj down one of the corridors, because i knew that things wouldv'e gone too far, and neither of us had protection. It was really strange.. like i'd given hand jobs before, but it was totally different! I kinda just did what came instinctuatively licking and stroking it etc.. and when he came i just kinda swallowed, by reflex? I was just wondering.. what was your first experience of giving/recieving head..and is mine much different to the norm?
my first blowjob was when i was 14. my sister friend really had the hots for me and she called me over the her house just to suck my dick! it was amazing. her mouth was so wet and warm. that started a long road of alot of sex and blowjobs.
I lost my virginity when I was 23 - although that did have any of the finer trimmings of foreplay, as I was being molested by a woman old enough to be my mother, so once my hormones took over, it was straight down to full penetration. However, this experience helped me out of my excessive shyness with women & was soon on the way to having sex with several other partners - including mutual Oral. For about the next 20 years all my sexual activity remained straight, despite my innate Bi longings for Gay sex as well. Then the Internet came along, and I was able to get some No Strings Attached connections via some of the online dating sites. Knowing how good it had felt to receive Oral from women, I have always got a real kick from reciprocating on men. It may be one thing to pleasure a woman orally - and the chances are that as the clitoris & the glans are the identical organs, then the sensation experienced is probably also identical, but this is merely conjecture, whereas when giving another man Oral I know for certain what it is he is feeling, and even this knowledge can be a major turn on.
Sounds like you've had a very intresting sex life so far! You really seem to know what you're talking about! And i see what you mean about enjoying giving oral..i've never had anyone go down on me, bu seeing how it turns the guy on is a MASSIVE turn on for me. Pleasuring him makes me sooo horny, like it's ridiculous
17 - received first blow job, felt great but nowhere near cumming. 34 - finally orgasm from a blow job, came so hard it turned my balls into raisins almost. Nothing gives a better orgasm than some lovely sucking the seed out from the point of origin all the way onto a wagging wet tongue. Don't even need to stroke it with your hand while performing. Simply practice with the mouth alone, which I'm sure the male will provide his wang for these practice sessions and once you get him all the way to the top of the mountain, I guarantee you he will follow you to the ends of the earth thereafter.
"Meg you need to learn to love a mans farts then he will love you forever," Peter Griffin Peace Out, Rev J
Hi Trumppets! My first time receiving head was when I was 18. I kid you not, i think my girl loved giving me head more than having sex with me. She was infatuated with my member, and would suck on it at every opportunity. One night, at a sleepover, there were about fifteen of us in sleeping bags in the one room. She took me in her mouth time and again. I wonder how many of them were awake listening to us? That same night was the first time i went down on her. She thought it was such an incredible experience, and when I asked if she came, it was like 'Of Course!' She asked if i had done it before. This is one thing that you mentioned, i think we all have an innate knowing of how to have sex, give oral, etc. Oh, and i think it builds so much more intimacy and trust between a guy and a girl if she swallows his cum ;-)
The first time anyone sucked my penis was when I was about 4. Obviously at that age it wasn't so much a sexual thing, more of a play dare initiation to a kid's gang. The next time, once things had started to become sexual, was when I was about 13 - 14, once a few of us had moved on to Mutual Masturbation, and on occasion this also involved giving / receiving Oral. However, even this wasn't really a sexual thing in the true sense, rather than some adolescents learning & experimenting with the new sensations their bodies were experiencing. My first truly sexual (straight) Oral encounter didn't come until I was about 25 - well after I had lost my virginity at 23, and I didn't get to experience Oral from another man until I lost my Gay virginity once I was into my 40s.
Received first head when I was 13 from the neighbor girl. It was my first sexual encounter and really didn't know much about it (there was no online porn in those days) or how it really should end up. Neither did she (I think she was 14 or 15). All I know it felt pretty damn good and went home and jacked off. She gave me oral 3 more times over the next year, and the last time I got a little more wise and came in her mouth. She gagged but liked it. We moved and never saw her again. Met my high school sweetheart a few years later and had a lot of oral over the next two years. I kind of have a fetish for it, probably because it was my first sexual experience.
Haha I can see where your girlfriend is coming from though underthestars! I've heard so many of my friends complain about giving head, or come etc.. But I totally agree with what your saying! I think it can be a really intimate, sensual and sexual thing that really gets both the guy and the girl going
Aged 4? Yeah, I assume your just talking about childish games, curisosity and innocence!? Sounds like you have a pretty colourful and interesting sexual history
Now here's the thing. You haven't had sex yet, have you Trumppets? Many people have had sex by their 17th. birthday. I remember that all I wanted to do at 18 was to finally lose my virginity. Yet my girl made me wait for almost six months! And you know what? We were in love. We hugged and kissed and touched each other, brought each other to orgasm. I really did not feel like I was missing out at all. And I would hope, Trumpets, for you to fall in love, too. Then times, dates and ages just become irrelevant and all that matters is looking into your lover's eyes.
Dude, that first time having sex and the situation makes all the difference in the world as to how you view sex for the rest of your life, and is almost assured that you have no hang-ups. I am up there in years and had many relationships and the most unsatisfying sexual relationships I had were with girls/women who had major hang-ups due to early sexual experiences where they felt dirty or used. You guys did the right thing for the both of you. Congrats!
In my opinion there's a massive difference between Sexual Exploration / Experiences & actually losing your virginity. At the time when I was 4, the only thing I knew about sex was that boys had penises, and girls didn't, but even this knowledge held a fascination for me & my friends alike. By the time I entered puberty all our bodies were changing and we were all keen to experiment & learn what effect these changes were having. We would masturbate openly, often getting involved in Mutual Masturbation, but once again, this was what I have always considered as normal adolescent curiosity, and not even necessarily an indication of later sexuality. I didn't get to actually lose my virginity until much later, when I was 23 - and even then, due to my extreme shyness, I had to be molested into it by a nymphomaniac woman old enough to be my mother. Although I resisted to teh best of my ability at first, eventually my hormonal instincts kicked in & I went along with it - an experience I remember clearly with fondness & gratitude for the woman who broke me in, as it made it much easier for me on latter occasions.
