First Encounter

Let us hear your first time with a partner...How it happened, how it went, etc etc...

I've got none, since I haven't yet, but I'd love to hear some of yours...Stories are always great to listen to...

 

My first boyfriend is just a little taller than I, with beautiful, mussable brown hair, cut like a marble statue, sticks up for those he loves and is the perfect picture of tenderness when you're alone with him. We were best friends in High School where he was a star athlete and I was the carpetbagger (military brat) closet case trying to pass as a jock. We went ot a Catholic school in the reddest of the red states, and he unfortunately bought into that culture.

That was six years ago. Now we live 1100 miles apart but still talk from time to time. I go back to that town every memorial day. Two yearas ago I came out to him. He hugged me and told me we were best friends and he never wanted that to change. How I didn't cry my ass off hearing that I don't know.

I sometimes hold out hope that someday we will be together and he will move to MD to be with me, and together we'll conquer the world.

 

So, you guys aren't really together as of now because of the distance? Why so far apart?

 

Sandreckoner, that's a beautiful story

 

I was 14. I went over to my friend Danny's house to meet pretty much the only lesbian he knew. We had talked on the phone and stuff, and I wanted to actually meet her in person. So Danny had his boyfriend, Chris, and Tamara (the girl) over when I got there, but Tamara was hiding in the bathroom. She was all self-consious and stuff, and after 10 minutes we convinced her to come out. She was a lot taller than me (I was probably 5'1, she was at least 5'7)Anywho, we all went to the kitchen to talk for a while, and I was sitting on her lap at the table. Then Danny (being the well-meaning friend he was) took off with Chris to his bedroom, and lead me and Tamara to his mom's room. Then left us with some strawberry edible body paint.

Well, after 5 very painfully awkward minutes with us just complaining about him and his "silly" intentions, she asked if she could kiss me. This led other places very fast. My bra came off, and after a while she asked me if she could "go further". I was somewhat uncomfortable with this idea, but being so caught up in the moment, whispered yes, and soon the pants were undone and a certain hand was...I'm going to stop there
We did use the body paint before the pantlessness, on my tummylol It was cute. Then I realized, about ten minutes into the last part, that I had half an hour to walk down town and get to my tae kwon do class! We all walked there, and the rest of the night was dull and full of crappy martial arts


Thanks for making me remember that, although I'm kind of pissed off at myself for going that far that fast with someone I just met, I don't regret a thing. I learned a lot from that "relationship" that pursued afterwards. I also learned that if she doesn't respect if I don't want to go further (this example is 2 months into the relationship I believe), then I should dump her ass!

That was more of my first experience that my first lover, but hey! She was okay, but our relationship was based on making out and fooling around. She promised me she would stop doing drugs for me (morally against chemical drugs), then on Valentine's Day she left 5 minutes before the movie started with a "I'll be right back". Over half an hour later, she found me in the theater and after a few minutes I realized something; She had gotten high! After she promised me she'de stop! On our date! On Valentine's Day! Yeah, I really shouldn't have stayed with her as long as I did...

 

my first homosexual experience was in the back of a car with a guy and a girl, the girl was teaching the guy to give head. yeah.

 

Lordy I made a way longer post than I meant to..

 

Uhhh, life kinda got in the way: he's still going to school in the South and I'm working in the DC area.

 

I was wondering how did your guys/girls "first sexual encounter" with the a person of the same sex come to be? How old were you? Who was this person? How did you find out eachother were gay/lesbian? Details!

 

Well, I was 13 when I had my first encounter with a boy, and 14 when I had my first encounter with a girl... My friend was merely curious and experimented with oral sex; I was far to shy to do anything in return. However, I did initiate the first encounter with my first girlfriend; mutual masturbation. My friend is pretty much strictly heterosexual and doesn't have that great of an interest in me, but, my first girlfriend is rather queer when it comes to sexual orientation... As am I.

 

I was 14 (nearly 15) and he was 18, we both were on the chess team. He invited me to his home to practice after school, yanno a freshman hanging out with a senior - WOW what a treat and the envy of my friends. One thing lead to another and we had sex. I have no idea how he figured out I would do it with him, ie: how he knew I was gay, but he did and got me in bed. we did have sex several times until he graduated and went to college. Never saw him after.

 

n/a..

 

sadly, n/a as well.

 

my first real actual sexual experience with another guy:

i was 19 and in a foreign country.
at a happening outdoor gay bar/disco.
he was 18-20 and very cute.
i spoke little spanish.
he spoke very little english.
so we communicated through um.... "body language" that night, you could say.
had a few beers.
flirted with him, asked to go back to his place.
ended up spending the night.
did everything oral, anal on each other.
oh, he rammed me good alright.
made him cum 3 times by morning.
it was a blast!!!

 

my first sexual encounter with a women happened when I was 13. I was at my friends house watching movies, when the movies finished she turned off the VCR and the TV happened to be on a soft-core porn chanel. I was feeling pretty uncomfortable, but she left it on, as we watched she began to rub me through my underware and I did the same to her. It didnt last long and we both stopped before either of us got off, and afterwards we never talked about it, nor did we ever do anything ever again. I think we both wanted to and there was a few time where it almost happened, but it didn't. I haven't talked to her in years.

 

Me and my friend were drinking. I don't know why we did, but we did. We were making out, fondling each other, etc.

Scared her, a bit. She's straight. And for a long time she had gone farther with me than with any guy.

We messed around again another time (drunk again), except with another girl. We went farther, actually eating each other. Once again, she had a boyfriend. I don't think it freaked her out as much this time around. She talked to me about questioning her own sexuality... but I think she's still straight.

 

sounds awesome

 

Mine was when I was 16. i met this guy who lived near me online, and we got together to see some movie that was out at the time. After making out for like ten minutes in the back of the theater, we left, went to his place, got stoned, had sex. End of story.

 

I have yet to experience my first encounter, but I came close a couple of times. One time I drove a guy home from a bar, and I wanted to hit on him but I didn't know how he would react. We climbed in through his window because he didn't have his key. We were both really drunk, and I wanted to kiss and touch him in the dark but nothing happened. Never saw him again.

 

I was 12 and the other guy was 14. He dared me to go down on him. I was curious--and highly attracted to him. I did.