How does someone find a secret lover? I need one. Just one, that's all I ask. I don't get nearly enough at home. I am not into kinky stuff, I just want a long term straight up lover. Great sex. So how does a person do this?
Why don't you jus figure out why you don't get enough at home? Normally women turn down sex for a emotional reason. Figure it out then you can have all the sex you want. WARNING: The people on these boards are NOT nice to cheaters. This may be the most civilized reply that you get. Because really dude, cheating is SO LAME, and very hurtful.
If you want a secret lover. I would say look for a good looking person at a bar who has a bit of intelligence talk to them for a while see what they are all about. If you end up being turned on by them whisper in their ear that you would like to be with them casually. I guarantee you a man would be silly to turn that down.
Why cheat vs ending your current relationship and then start something casual? It sounds like you may not be sexually compatible or there is some other issue. Cheating is shitty. If your not satisfied find and alternative way to send that message but don't damage your current partner.
Cheating will lead to grief for all concerned 99% of the time. I know from both sides of the cheating that it's bad news for all concerned. It has been years and years since the last time I cheated and I still regret it deeply. Pay attention to Mothman's and Sarahrei's words of wisdom! Have fun, play safely, and don’t play with fire!
Badmoonraising - - Listen to Number6 also! If you can’t stand to be alone with yourself while you’re between relationships, then how do you expect to ever find a worthwhile partner? If you don’t like the person that you’ve become, then become some one else Good luck in life! Michelle Obama 2016 __________________ Getting high With a little help …. from my friends!
