Feel Safer With A Man?

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by Green, Jun 24, 2005.

  1. Green

    Green Iconoclastic

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    I am not gay, if I were I'd tell you. Women don't seem to enjoy some sexual things, understandibly, but sometimes they don't try, let me give you an example.

    I read somewhere on here that a woman had phone sex with her boyfriend. He masturbated to it, but she said she was bored by it.

    If that had been me who jacked off to it and I heard that, I would feel awful.

    Or when a guy has sex with a girl, and he is really into it, but she is completely out of it thinking "I've had better".

    I know some guys do an awful job having sex, and there not who I am talking about.

    I know in some cases sex drive ect... I am not talking about those either.

    So to the title of the thread, would you feel safer with a man, knowing that he is into you?

    I know some women just fly through relationships and don't care, I hate that. They feel nothing when they break up, but the guy cries. I know that alot of times the guy feels nothing, and the girl cries, it varies from person to person.

    I am not trying to generalize anything. I am just saying how bad I would feel if it were me.
     
  2. tigerlily

    tigerlily proud mama

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    well women go through those same things you described men going through... it can hurt either way, but i'm sure anybody would feel safer and more secure with somebody that was into them and enjoying what was going on
     
  3. Green

    Green Iconoclastic

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    6 views 1 reply? How many people are just drifting through the forums?
     
  4. Soulless||Chaos

    Soulless||Chaos SelfInducedExistence

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    I read it, but I don't really have anything worth adding in a reply.. :rolleyes: If it were me, I would feel quite shitty as well.. But I'd rather be single than with someone I'm not completely into, you know? :D
     
  5. velvet

    velvet Banned

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    Yeah.. agreed with above poster. Plus you're posting this in the mens forum so I'm not quite sure if I'm getting this right: are you asking if men would be more happy having sex with another guy who's really into the same kind of sex, instead of being with a girl who's not really all that much into you? Or just in general? Well, I don't think anyone would be too happy when the feelings aren't close to mutual so, kinda an open door.

    Hey.. is your 'wemon' a deliberate misspelling of women (like womyn) or just slacking? :p Because now it looks like we are a variation of 'demon'.. which is only partly true :p
     
  6. Green

    Green Iconoclastic

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    I know, I've gotten more than enough commets on my crappy spelling. I made this thread along time ago too.
     
  7. billyjean305

    billyjean305 Member

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    grow a pair!!........... both women and men can be bitches and assholes.
     
  8. McFuddy

    McFuddy Visitor

    ^^ you bumped a 4 year old thread. LOL no worries, just found it amusing.
     
  9. Zorba The Grape

    Zorba The Grape Gavagai?

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  10. billyjean305

    billyjean305 Member

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    ROFL!! i know.................hee hee :D
     
  11. bukulu

    bukulu Member

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    usually its easier for the leaver than the leavee
     
  12. Bassline514

    Bassline514 Member

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    Yup, cause the leaver can get prepared before dumping while for the other it's usually a shock.
     
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