So tell me do you guys think that we grow up more stable and well rounded people if we come from a stable rounded family. on the opposite of that coin are we actually products of our invronment. it's the old nature vs nurture arguement, i would like to know why you feel the way you do when you post please.
I don't talk about my family too much because they are evil, evil people... But I will say growing up in the house that I did made me who I am today... I was on my own since I popped out my mom's womb, it's just been me and me.. I am not going to go all boo-hoo because that's life, and if I was treated differently than I was, well, than I probably wouldn't be the person that I am today...
Sometimes I wonder if they cloned me and raised that clone in a loving and caring environment, how "I" would turn out... I was abused, so I have a feeling I started off with more potential that I ended up with.
Let it be known that when lode kidnaps you and takes you off to his mario style castle I AM NOT GONNA SAVE YOU.
SOrry to hear about the abuse, i worked in a group home and the level of abuse that is going on in this country truely makes me sad.
Nope i don't get it I DO SO LOVE the attention whore referance i was at the bar this weekend and me and a buddy were talking about the girls that rub and dance all over each other for the attention.
I think maybe having a screwed up childhood makes one vulnerable and emotional when young and much tougher later on.A generalization,I guess,but with me, I was closed off for years and wasn't able to come to grips with some issues that don't even arise in "regular families "--that is ,families with a mom and dad that were around or gave a shit.So I would be shy and deferential sometimes and then completely crazy and out of control other times.The psychological bullshit began to melt away with some self examination thru chemistry.Of course if I would have had a regular family,I probably wouldn't be here--probably wouldn't have used chemicals and might be a weak bitch working in a cubicle somewhere saying yes sir--no sir to some prick.I can see how what I had when young toughened me up in the long run.
well, bars and clubs do have those types of people, that's why they suck.. And have the aroma of ball sweat and desperation... So elvish, what about your family and how it made you who you are today and such...
Well my parents have been divorced so it was kinda rough goign back and forth on summers. But after going to llive with my dad and a few years of resenting my stepdad and my moms new family i realized that he is a great guy and makes my mom happy and treats us good. So on to my stepmom she is an amazing loving woman raised us strong and firm but was always loving and supportive in EVERYTHING we did. She is simple the smartest woman on the planet, and the most amazing. I get along with all my siblings even tho we are all diffrent. To the point i was acting out because of the new DAD/family thing and i think if i hadn't been sent to live with my dad then busted for selling coke, it would have just been a downward spiral.
