I was wondering how many people have one of these? Someone that is a friend, no relationship status... just sex when you want it? How did it come about for you and how long did it last? are you still friends? xx
I've had a couple over the years. They came about because I am very open to talking about sex and related issues. Just simply through conversation the subject comes up and when all parties are open to it, it usually turns out to be great fun. The only time any of them have ended badly is when one of the people involved decided to lie about what they were doing. As soon as dishonesty is brought into it, the risks far outwiegh any benefit that may come from it all. And yes, I am still friends with most of them (minus the ones who lied).
yes I met a guy when I was 19, we were very attracted to each other had sex, it was freaking awesome, after that whenever one us wanted some we would call each other, no strings attached, no dates, no relationship stuff. This went on for over 20 years!! Then we got married. LOL
Yeah when I was 18/19 my sisters friend and I were F buddies. It came about through partyin and sexin, then both parties enjoyed the sex but neither of us were looking for a relationship so we kept it just what it was (F buddies) for about 8 months i would guesss, maybe a bit longer not sure, but yeah we're still friends, but she has a boyfriend now so fun is over lol.
i only recently really attempted the whole fuck buddy thing. i wanted to be as open as possible, honesty is key to these things i assume but also i just like being open. mainly it would be going out to an art show, drinks, dinner...ya know a bit of a date, going back to his place...we had really great sex in my opinion. he says its amazing for him. i did like him in my own way but i wasnt falling for him or wanting more out of our relationship. after a lil while though i just started realizing he wasnt being honest. i would see him bring other girls home (my best friends his neighbor) and then tell me he wasnt hooking up with other people (altho i could hear girls getting fucked in his apt). i did tell him when i was with another guy (only 2) he would get retardly jealous about me and other dudes when i wouldnt really care about him and other girls, my only line to cross is just straight out saying "hey i was/am planning to be with another chick". its actually really upsetting because i expected him to be true to his word, the agreement we had when we first started this. the agreement was atleast on my half "we can have sex and have fun but if you arent honest then i cant trust you, if i cant trust you i cant cum with you, if i cant cum then i have no use for you" eventually i couldnt cum. we had a thing for about 6 months give or take. in that time i was with him and two other guys (they werent that great in bed) i kinda speculate hes been with 5-8 girls but only admitting to 2. im very much an open minded person i dont have many rules to follow or be followed. i dont appreciate that so ive just left him high and dry we do see each other regularly still, hes my best friends neighbor after all. i shoulda kept it as a one night stand but we both liked it so much we had to call each other again. all i can say is fuck buddies can work for a while as long as the two people are eye to eye, but it never lasts as fuck buddies. until the loneliness strikes.
yall were fuck buddies, can i ask why youd worry about him fucking other chicks? bc youre not in a relationship so fuck it who even cares
I did this once... after breaking up! We remained friends...she was all sorts of opposed to the idea of having an f-buddy but somehow the sexual tension grew and it was so much better than having all the strings attached, cause I didn't have any real feelings left for her.
They fuck buddy relationship system is too constraining. If you chill with me, we might end up fucking every once in a while. No details necessary.
sex without strings---you know men totally invented this idea gotta love it--especially the girls who actually go through with it
I dont care that he was with other girls but out of respect to our sexual healths i would like to know if you are. Plus it keeps it in check that we are just f buddies, the understanding that u two are not exclusive and being okay with that. I am open. I am honest. And i find myself most certainly open to honesty. Hopefully u can understand some sort logic in that
I did it for about 2 years+ and its fun until you get drama involved and they cant make up their minds on what they want, leave you randomly and never talk to you again after playing those games over and over...it really isnt fun.
I'm in a honest relationship,I still believe F~Buddies are great to have as long as there clean and they won't screw you by getting knocked up and making you pay child support,do your homework make sure there clean see there bill of health and make sure they use the pill or other really effeccctive birth control,Sex for recreation not procreation,:} Be Well brothers and sister. P.s. were cool until they decide to elect Sarah Palin then they may become like Ireland before it became liberated with birth contol,be safe
One of my favourite quotes 'I'm not against half naked girls- not as often as i'd like to be' Think that sums my situation pretty aptly
Never been lucky enough to have one, would still like to have one but doubt the gf would go for it besides i don't think i could ever do it whilst in a relationship anyways
