Experience This Weekend

I visited some friends this weekend and I ended up staying with a friend of mine who's gay. He asked me if I wanted to cuddle with him, I figured it would be cool so I did. We ended up sitting on his bed with our pants down rubbing our penises together for about an hour Friday night. Then on Saturday we did it again. He asked if I would feel comfortable ejaculating while we messed around and I told him he could. After another hour or so of kissing cuddling and rubbing dicks he shot all over my dick and pubes... It was nice, we laid there for a while and cuddled more afterwards.

I just loved the feelings, emotions, and smells of being that close to a man. I don't really think I could get off like that. I want to see him again. What do I do?

 

is this a serious question? you try and start a relationship with him. unless you are asking about being confused with your feelings.

 

can I cum and observe?

 

I have never done anything like this before... I am not sure if I am gay.

 

nice experience.

just go with what feels comfortable. friends mess around too. nothing wrong with it.

 

Sounds like a good friend...nothing wrong with hanging out together, doesn't neccesarily mean that you are gay. Maybe, maybe not...go with it.

 

I'm with the thoughts of "bibearman." I'm leaning to "probably not," Not a gay epexience, totally a human experience. Everyone on this planet wants to feel closeness. Your experience just proves it.
I believe your event was a combination of loneliness and taking advantage to relieve that loniness with another human being at least for a short time.
I wonder what else was going on in your life at that time.
Might sound strange to some but I was in a very straight neighborhood bar one time, got talking to another guy, sharing typical male banter, he was talking about his ex g/f's, I was talking about mine. He admitted that his relationship had been a few years ago. I said the same. He then stated that it had been years since he ever held someone close or even been kissed. I said that I was in the same boat. We kinda gave each other a knowing look and both decided to go out back for a cigarette. We continued our conversation, getting closer and closer. Next thing, we were both holding each other, with our tongues down each other's throat. Yeah, we both got hard and were rubbing each other's crotches. Eventually, we went back inside. He looked at me and said, "Thanks, I needed that." I said, "ditto." And that was it. Saw him in the bar a few days later, this time we both were with a few friends. He looked me, we both smiled and gave each other a knowing wink and the thumbs' up.
Was that a gay experience? I don't think so, just two people who needed a human experience in the time-space continuum.
Would like to have an update with what's going on between you and your buddy.

 

This is a typical example of what is usually described as "situational homosexuality" for at least one man.

Situational homosexuality has been with us for a very long time. Some classical cultures cherished the idea, and made it into their mainstay.

In the meantime, the stigma associated with m2m sex is being lifted in many societies. So many people have come out, or at least admitted to having had m2m sexual experience that the whole thing is turning into a new "normal".

You want to simply enjoy your closeness as much as you can. You may or may not be gay. This is not an issue here. Because it does not really matter. You are living your sexuality, and that is what really matters.

Go with the flow, and do not make any promises that you cannot keep.

KD

 

WOW, u r soo lucky. i would give anything to be that close to a guy especially a good friend. get back together with him man and keep it going.

 

I have had a few more experiences with this guy and we talked about them.

He thinks its not a relationship and I agree. I'm sure I want to date women still and he plans to date guys still. It's interesting that he said to me, "If you want anal or oral then I expect a relationship." I told him no and we only cuddled and did frot.