Due to masterbation i cum very soon .. need help

Hi,
i am having one issue. In the beginning when i started masterbation, it took me like 15-20 min of stroke to cum and now it takes only 2-3 minutes.

Is that fine or i need any kind of treatments ?? As i am going to do sex real soon with my girl friend but i am afraid due to this problem.

Any suggestions ??

 

anybody who takes longer than 5 minutes either has their mind on other things or wants it to take longer, or has just had an orgasm or two already that day. One tip for you, though... You don't "do sex" with anyone. That's no good. You should make love to her. Most guys come too soon their first time, it's normal and it's okay. As scary as the first time is for everyone, it's probably better that way, just focus on making her feel good, snuggle and cuddle and rub on her. Kiss her all over and worship her body. Sex is about way more than the act, it's more about how you do it, what leads up to it, and what you do afterwards.

 

if you want to last longer wack off like 15-30 before you have sex. masterbation will make you last longer. and you have to remember, when you wack off you go way faster than you do in sex.

 

I dont know maybe women's bodies are different, but you are (as far as I am concerned) making a HUGE generalization with the above quote...

It takes me on average 10-15 minutes and I just work hard enough to get myself off, There are times when I slowly work up to a big "explosion" and on those occassions it takes MUCH longer from 45 mins to an hour...

Also for this quote:

I would contend you only "make love" to those you really love, at least for me anyway, you have sex or shag, or fuck with those you are "into" or have a physical attraction too

 

I think it may be that youve just developed your technique to what gets you hot. Try with you other hand (the unsuded one) and then youl probably take 10-15min, but with your practiced hand youl always cum quicker because of the better, more coordinated stimulation. Well thats imo anyway, but your just like the rest of us, you dont need treatment lol

hope it helps
kaannn

 

.....for what it is worth, i have never sensed any relationship between masturbatory time lapse and the time it takes with intercourse. They are two different things, the stimulation is not the same, the emotional processes are different, and the results are very different. I know some guys who think they are the same, and their g/fs say they are lousy lovers. I even bonked a couple of 'em. So don't worry dude, you'll see that you still have much to learn, and much fun learning, about using the ole purple headed prong!

 

Yes! Intercourse and masturbation are totally different. I mean, you know yourself way more than she does... and it's the same thing for her.

Anyway, don't worry about lasting-- the first time is always awkward and, thanks to Hollywood, invariably a letdown... but it's still the most exciting, I think! In fact, don't worry about being good or satisfying her or even satisfying yourself... just worry about getting over your fear of what's going to happen... and making sure everything is safe! I mean, it's not like you've just got one try and then that's it... chances are you're going to be having sex off and on with someone for the rest of your life.

And definitely ignore whoever said you have to 'make love' to her like you're some kind of super sex god that knows all about women or something... I mean, how many virgins really know how to 'make love'? Just focus on getting it over with and then you'll find you'll want to do it again... and as long as you're open about everything it will get better-- I think it's good to talk about it, some people don't, but I do.

Anyway, that's what I have to say about it.

 

i like to spend about an hour to masturbate. i definitely could cum much quicker, but i like to build up the orgasm. i do the same thing while having sex, so my body is pretty much trained to last as least 45 minutes. often time, hours and hours.