i need help. badly. let me describe this fast and short: i fell in love with a girl (liz), another girl got jealous (max). max 'attacks' me and we hook up. i date liz to make myself feel better. me and max fight, breakup, get back together god knows how many times. max cheats on me. we break up. i try to tell liz im sorry. another girl gets jealous (rose). i date rose out of pity. me and rose fight and split up. i try to tell liz i love her and im sorry. liz goes out looking for other guys. other guys go after liz. i dont like this. i go crazy. liz finds this one guy. i tell her not to go with him out of jealousy. i beat myself up. meand liz fight. liz calls me up and we finally admit love for each other. problem: its been 4 months now and me and liz havent talked or even hinted about our love to each other, or to any one else. as far as i know were still together and she does love me. but how come i cant bring myself around to telling her i love her? were together so much but i havent visited her in a while and im afraid she thinks that i dont really love her. i need to do something and fast. PLEASE i need help!
First: Stop breathing. Exhale. Take a deep breath. Resume breathing. Second: You say you love her, right? Do whatever it takes to let her know that. I don't mean flowers or cookies or whatever ... I mean, go right up to her, smack yourself in the face if you have to, and just say it. Don't worry about saying anything fancy or putting it in a "nice" way, I'm sure those words are nice enough as it is. Third: Good luck. =)
Maybe she thinks you don't love her because of that story.. Wow.. Stop using your penis and start using your brains.. If Liz is the one you really love then forget the others and prove to Liz that you care about her, and only her.. If you love her, tell her, show her.. The fact that you have a story like that, and that you haven't visited her is no wonder why she may feel betrayed/lonely/unsure.. Good luck, and yeah don't forget to breathe..
