Does this seem odd to you?

I find it very strange. Earlier today an envelop came for my ex fiancé (who has not lived here since august of 2003). Now, my post office was informed of his address change back then and has not accidently sent any of his mail here within the last year. Inside (someone else had opened it) was his State ID from 2002 that he had obtained when he first moved here (this was before he received his license), his library card, a grocery store preferred card, a store chain's associates card, and a gas station card. The only two items he was in possession of while living here were the ID and the library card. The rest he must have obtained while living at his family's current address. My first thought was that he must have lost his wallet and upon finding the address on the card, someone sent it here. However, that is not possible. If he had lost his wallet, it would have contained his current driver's license (since he would have had to switch it when he moved back home). That would possess a later date than the 2002 State ID. What I find to be the most interesting piece of the puzzle to be is the fact that the return address area is actually stamped with the official stamp of the Post Office in the town where he lives now. However, his name and my address were hand written (in a handwriting that I do not recognize). Knowing how his mind works, it could just be a game, or he could have merely thrown them out (he has never grasped the aspect of removing labels that contain addresses). In any event, I have not had contact with him since this past september.

 

That is kindly scary if you ask me

 

weird, if it is him just messing with you, i wouldn't give him the satisfaction of calling him.

 

Yeah, that's sort of strange...

 

Nah, I wouldn't bother to call him

 

sounds like the sort of thing that happens all the time for the sole purpose of fucking with you

 

burn it or trash it

 

Pass me a lighter and I shall.

That chapter of life is over and done with. The book has been closed on it. I just find the actual event with items to be a bit out of the ordinary.

 

Indeed

 

humm playing with your head, just be careful, ignore him..

 

I'm not really worried about him. I would just like to know why it was sent to me from the post office

 

mail it back to his family with a note that you wre confused about why it was sent to you.

Go to the post office and see if you can stop any more mail with his name on it coming to your house. I think you can.

 

i agree with headymoechick its a trap send it to his family and you wont need to even be in contact with him

 

My post office is aware of the request for his mail not to be sent here. In the beginning they would make an occasional slip up and send a magazine or something of no value. Although they did send his tax information here last year. It's just odd that his post office is the one who sent it to my home.

I can see how he would have the idea of sending the library card, state ID, and grocery preferred card he had obtained while living here as signifying that he was breaking all ties to our relationship (which is pointless because we have already had closure six months ago). What I do not see is why he would send cards he obtained while living back at home (The gas station and chain store) that have no relation to our past for any other reason than a simple mind game. Mind games have never been his forte. After all that has taken place in the his past, he should be more concerned with laying low. He has a lot of psychological underlying factors and a rep sheet.

 

Is there a return address.... send it back and write on the envelope... Moved.. if it his him playing a game... hell get the message.... if not.. its out of your hands now

 

The post office in his town

 

that's bizzare I would post them and just mark return to sender. I'm not that savvy on weird little games like that so I have no idea whether or not it's a test. But he sounds like a jerk good thing you left him.

 

now im intruiged what happend between you and your (ex) fiance why'd you wanna get married then brake up? tell me if it's none of my buisness if thats the way you feel.

 

You should cut them all in half and send it back to his house

 

Wow, I can see why there is identy theft.