Does size matter?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by nigelnewbie, Dec 23, 2008.

  1. nigelnewbie

    nigelnewbie Member

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    Does the size of a man penis matters to really pleasure a woman?

    Ladies, your answer from your experience would be much appreciated. Please answer honestly and not an answer to make guys feel good. Just the truth!

    What size is ok? what size is too small?

    And sorry folks if this is in the wrong area, I'm new so not sure how it really works around here yet.
     
  2. caliente

    caliente Senior Member

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    LOL ... gee, this is an original topic!

    To answer your question ... yes and no.

    A big cock is exciting to look at, but it doesn't really matter than much during sex. Once it's inside, they're all pretty much the same.
     
  3. piscesqueen

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    i think big dicks are a bit scary to look at!! plus anything more than 6/7" is just a waste...& blowjobs are a nightmare. i once went out with a really big, tall guy...his penis was huge...scary huge over 9"...yikes!! its not like you can really do anything with a penis that long...so like i say its a waste...
     
  4. caliente

    caliente Senior Member

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    Men are far more concerned with the size of their penis than we are. If it's not a guy I'm interested in, I don't care anyway.
     
  5. piscesqueen

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    exactly...i soooo agree!! :)
     
  6. caliente

    caliente Senior Member

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    i once went out with a really big, tall guy...his penis was huge...scary huge over 9"...yikes!!

    LOL ... yah, once you've gotten a look at it, you're like ... omg, you're gonna put that where???
     
  7. Ddoright

    Ddoright Senior Member

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    Caliente - Please ignore this -- GOD - I HOPE NOT. I'm 5 1/2 " and generally get pretty good reviews.:eek:
     
  8. piscesqueen

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    caliente...

    i know it made my eyes water just looking at it...it was very thick too...:eek:
     
  9. TheDead420

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    Sorry to bump this but your post has me thinking. I have a 8 inch and about 9 in the molment with a really hot chick. I have never gotten a good BJ. The first girl I was with had sex about 10 times and said It was to big. Could this be true? Will I ever get good head?
     
  10. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    You could be too big, my fiance is huge and takes a really long time to get off threw a blowjob so he only gets them rarely.

    And yes, to me size matters. I've had average, I've had below average, and I've had two partners way above average and hands down they were a better lay. However I'm also one of those girls who enjoys my cervix being hit. Many don't.
     
  11. RawAndNatural

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    :D YEAH !

    I am really glad that sarahrei posted that reply! It is a prime example that size can make a difference for some women. Sure, not all women crave that FULL FEELING, but it is worth mentioning because a notable amount of women do, especially if they are very much into vaginal penetration.

    Now, not every woman's vagina is the same, so a thich 7" penis may give some women that FULL FEELING, but some women would actually need a very thick 8 incher to fill them up.

    So there are two variables.

    1. Some women like more pressure on their vaginal walls than others.

    2. Her vagina may be average, big, or small, which will effect what size penis gives her more pressure.

    Most importantly, size is NOT the most important thing when choosing a partner for a long term romantic relationship. So, even the women who PREFER BIG PENISES don't chose a "long term" partner only by his size. Sure, if he has it, and she likes it, it will be a benefit, but other things are more important than the size of his dick.

    So, when seeking a partner to share life with, penis size does not matter as much as other qualities are traits.

    Yet, for fantasy fullfillment, and being a "fuck buddy", a big dick would be more IMPORTANT.

    I prefer women that have a bigger pussy than average, but I can not base my choice for a mate on that. Other qualities are of more importance and theirfore force me to choose a woman mased on her BELIEFS AND VALUES.

    After all of that, I can still say that most all of us have our limits, and will feel happy and satisfied with someone that falls into our "range of expectations".

    Most experienced adults are realistic about their expectations on body shapes and sizes, and genitals. We all have to be a little flexible.

    Some people do have all of the luck though!
     
  12. risquebabe

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    Honestly, in my experience, bigger is better. It could have been that the guy was just not that good in general, but I just didn't like that it kept falling out.
     
  13. Dragonfly

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    as long as it stays in and the guy has good rythme i don't mind size usually, but i'm not all about a wide penis, last time i was with a guy that was real wide it was painful and even bloody and that stings to much for my likeing.
     
  14. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    True, I hate it when mid thrust the guy pulls out then slams back and misses the damn target.
     
  15. GST

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    Perhaps some form of targeting scope would be in order lol?
     
  16. BostonBill

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    It's not the size of the boat in the ocean, it's the boats' motion in the ocean.
     
  17. Dragonfly

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    there's alot of things in the ocean to consider though for sure, it's not just the waters but the animals that lurk inside...
     
  18. FunHogg

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    Pussy feels the same no matter how big your dong is. So quit sweating it gentlemen.


    Seriously. This has been done to death.
     
  19. BostonBill

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    That's deep. I'll need some time to thoroughly think that comment through.:)
     
  20. RawAndNatural

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    Yes, the shorter ones do slip out too easy, unless the man and the woman purposely use little short humps.
     

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