Does Sexy = Physically Attractive?

Have you ever thought someone was sexy despite the fact that you didn't think they were physically attractive?

Like they just had a way about them that made them sexy?

I don't mean that you were repulsed by them, but someone you might not take another look at until you got to know them and their personality and attitude in general made them sexier than their looks alone would indicate?

I've known lots of women that were moderately attractive but their attitude made them so sexy...

I wish I had that way about me.

If this is pointless or makes no sense I apologize. It is late and I am loopy.

 

yes

 

Not to be rude, but that was WAYYYYYY too much information. I am not going to take the time to read all of that.

 

lmfao ok.....

yes I have found people sexy when they have not been physically attractive.

 

Oh really?

I want names.

They are women, right?

 

uh no. I will tell you though
He is the district attorney on one of our homicide cases. I flirt and flirt with him. He isnt that cute to look at but damn, he reminds me of one of those damn librarians that when they are off work they let loose and are gorgeous.

 

That is fantastic...

He must be gay if he's not picking up on your flirtations.

The librarian thing...

yeah...

Only I prefer the female librarians.

 

lol......he is married and has seven kids six are under the age of five.

I only flirt to try and get our guy a single digit plea deal.

 

I qualify beautiful, pretty, sexy, and cute as independent variables. all of them can rate highly, or none of them, or each individually.

hope that helps.

 

That just isn't fair.

You are only supposed to flirt if you want to take things further.

From now on your nickname shall be "The Devious One".

 

uhmm sometimes maybe yeah?

 

So what adjective do you reserve for the ultimate member of the opposite sex?

 

ya gotta do what ya gotta do.

 

yes

 

all of the above, describing them separately makes it sound more flattering.

 

Don't be so decisive. You don't want to make snap judgments like that. Especially when they are so black or white.

There are shades of grey ya know.

 

Well ok, if you insist.

 

she's sexy enough to not have to be specific, just stare into her eyes, and as you are transfixed you will cease to care that she has really said almost nothing.

or cleavage... that works too.

 

For some reason I have gravitated towards "Gorgeous".

 

Yes. Totally. But I have this knowledge of what I find attractive, and it's not really what anybody would assume from a pretty gal like me.

I am attracted to a certain personality type, for certain. The kind that pulls me in like a moth to a flame, comme l'âme de notre âme. Ahh, c'est un merveille. C'est plus bleu que les bleu de tes yeux.