Not really. Maybe it should.. some of it would freak her out,-probably be like when I found my parents porn stash-... I hope she is grown if she ever reads the shit posted here, and I hope she laughs.
Nah, doesn't freak me out. I doubt they would be interested in reading any of it, I'm pretty tame. And if anything, they'd see that I talk about them a lot because I love the little buggers.
i'd think it was kind of cool. as far as i know i don't have any of my own. but my late wife had some grandkids already when i married her. i'd love for them to be even a little interested in anything i may have said. for all i know maybe they have. they were one and three, ten years ago, so maybe one of them could even be on here. i've only met them and their parents a couple of times, or maybe it was only once, and that was years ago. time goes by. time going by is good. having to get older with it doing so is less good.
Nah, they probably get sick of how often I tell them I love them. Well, it's still okay for now, but as they get older, they'll be like, ugh, mom, please!
1. dude, if this shit is all still around when they're old enough that I ALLOW them to be on the internet (there will be HARSH encryption) I'll read it with them, this shit is the least of my worries.
Sounds like alot of work, how would you monitor their internet activity if they were at a friends house? I don't think you can completely force anything to happen the way you want when it comes to having kids, it seems to me.
find out their friends IP address, capture, and filter all their internet activity. make them going to their friends house contingent on me having that IP address. and I'm only really concerned until they're 13 or so anyway. then, if they can defeat the system, they deserve to.
have you considered the social implications that would place on a child, having to get their friends IP's in order to have a sleep over or hang out at a friends house? It seems to me you're better off just teaching them responsibility on the net and/or talk with their friends parents if you're worried they wont monitor online activity.
plan on teaching them responsibility. but also know that as we move forward in years as a society knowing the IP of the house your kid is over at will be on par with knowing the phone number (which is completely reasonable now, but, not so long ago, wasn't) changing times. I'm just prepared to adapt as I will have to with them. and if I have to borrow then mothballed CIA tricks to do it, I don't see a shred of wrong with that.
It's not really about 'right' or 'wrong', but rather 'best' but you may be right about the future and the use of IP adresses but i do have to wonder how long it would be before that would be common, some people dont even know what an IP adress is, others couldnt tell you how to find out what it is.
Honestly? these measures are probably two or three generations from validity, but they will be valid. and, if it's something I feel needs to be done, I plan to do it I'd like to have as many graduated steps open to me as possible should I need them, as people are complex, and simple methods don't always work well.
my son is almost 14...him and his friends have been on this site but it doesnt bother me too much...anything that i post,i would say to him in person if he asked or if it came up...i am relying heavily on educating him about 'my lifestyle' so that he is at least a 'knowledgeable delinquent' note to my son....i told you that i want all that homemade bong shit put away in your room...and if your friends are comin over today,make sure they stop at the store and buy their own munchies and juice because they have already cleaned me out for this month