Do I have commitment problems?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by what2do, Jun 11, 2007.

  1. what2do

    what2do Member

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    Everytime I get into a relationship it never lasts more than a week... I will really like the guy, think hes fit, he will ask me out, i would say yes, and then i'd just go off of him..why? Are most teenagers like this? I hope its something I can fix because I'm ready to fall im love and I cant do that if every guy I meet I find a fault with and I finish him.

    Any advice? Thanks...
     
  2. mlee27

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    the reason you do this is because your young and unsure of what you want which is very normal for someone your age.are you really ready to fall i n love??what about education?
     
  3. what2do

    what2do Member

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    yea education always comes first of course... but i want to find someone that i would be comfortable to spend the rest of my life with and that would be there for me while im going through college and university :S
     
  4. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    just remember noones perfect but realize what is & isnt acceptible, if your able to forgive a few small things & keeop all the good then u can make it last, but dont stick around if he displays the things u simply cant accept justto keep a relationship
    but also realize finding real love may take time, & may mean going through dozens or more before u find 1 your able to just be with
    but at the same time, 1 week? are u giving them a fair chance? are u staying tofgether long enpugh to even know who your dating?
    if a prob arises, get past it, u grow from every lil thing u overcome
    u wont have a healthy love till u learn top get over the lil things & concentrate on the big picture, making it last
     
  5. imilia

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    I wasn't ready for a real relationship until I was in my 20s. If you were truly ready to fall in love then you wouldn't be having what you consider a problem. You are way to young to be worried about something like that. I realize the media and maybe your friends are pushing young love but there is more than enough time. I know, I sound like a mom. Because I am. My son also didn't have a solid relationship until he was in his twenties. We both still had a lot of fun and concentrated our energy on other things. Don't rush it. When everything is right it will happen.
     
  6. Brand New Soul

    Brand New Soul Senior Member

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    Im the same way! I think in time.. we'll both be ready for a "real relationship". Dont worry to much about it :)
     
  7. natural philosophy

    natural philosophy bitchass sexual chocolate

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    wow you're 15 don't worry about love or spending the rest of your life with someone. you have your entire life to find that person.
     
  8. Suncatch22

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    Most teenagers ARE that way :) You are self-aware, that's good.

    Don't rush into anything. Dating around is kinda fun, as long as you don't invest yourself too much into any one guy -- you are NOT ready for, and don't even need!, commitment at age 15 so deary, don't even worry that you have a problem.
    Too many people start "Falling in Love" and having sex when they are fifteen. I am not a prude, but I have NEVER met ANYONE who started having sex at 15 and now has anything approaching a decent attitude toward sex.

    Don't look too hard for True Love, most of us haven't found it and we are five, ten, even fifteen or more years older than you. Just have a good, healthy time and enjoy your youth for what it is :)

    If you want to make a commitment, for practice find a rockstar or other public figure and get a nice healthy crush on him for years ... I personally fancy Noel Fielding and am rather loyal to him even if to no one else. ;)
     
  9. MatthewShane

    MatthewShane Banned

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    agreed!
     
  10. MatthewShane

    MatthewShane Banned

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    also agreed with what everyone else says..These things are normal! And it will take time. No worries!
     
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