Do I come across as a slut?

Don't worry, I'm confident in my sexuality. So be honest.

 

not really Just as you say, confident and curious

 

no... I don't think so..

 

I say that no one here really has the right to say you come off as being a slut... We all act like a bunch of horny pervs sometimes. Besides, a slut wouldn't admit to being bothered by having a one night stand.

 

I don't think you do. Do you feel like one? That's what matters.
Don't people usually relate being a slut to the number of people someone has been involved with anyway?

 

Depends on the topic. You can come off as a slut, or should I say it would be easy to see how someone would say that, but I don't think you do personally.
... Yes, that was very confusing lol.

 

I've been with seventeen guys in my life, and I realize that qualifies me as a slut by many people's standards. I like to talk--and even brag--about my sexual escapades. But I've been in serious relationships since I was fourteen.

I don't consider myself a slut. I enjoy sex, I'm very open to new things, and I don't care who knows it. And because of that I feel that I come across a little slutty sometimes.

 

As long as you don't give it up easily. I mean if the guy says "Hi" and you're like "Let's go to bed" (Which I'm sure you don't do.) then you are. If you're lucky enough to have found 17 worthy guys, then I envy you.

 

Actually.. I don't think how many people you have slept with is the qualifying factor in being a slut....... It's more on the standards. I've been with 29 guys in 8 years. That's an average of 4 a year. But you also have to realize that a lot of my relationships, the guys waited the couple of months to get me to put out and then broke up with me once they got action.. I've had about 50 relationships since I started dating when I was 13. I know I'm not a slut because I've had propositions from probably 200+ men. I don't sleep with anything that walks. I haven't had sex in over a month right now and I've already had 2 propositions in that small amount of time.

 

Well, they weren't all "worthy." A few were real pricks.

 

i think it depends on the mood of the person
"slut" is a derogatory comment for a "group" of people
a society if you will
in which case, in proportion
it is equal to "cracker" for white person (=P)
"******" for black
and other "slurs"
you are what you are and as long as you're not harming anyone or anything
everything should be alright
right?

 

Holy crap! Do you work in a bar or something!?!

 

That actually qualifies you as a honest, open person who is not afraid of herself or what people could say about you.

So kudos to you....:sunglasse

 

The fact that you have been with 17 men doesn't necessarily make you a slut. But, keeping count of the number of men seems weird.

 

I doubt there's a girl here that can't tell you exactly how many men she's been with.

 

I know how many men I've been with. NONE!!!
As far as women, I have no idea.

 

Boasting about doing shots of baby batter kind of gives off an eau de skank.

Then again, I don't actually know you.

But yes, to be quite frank.

 

It obviously doesn't mean as much to guys...

 

Every one meant something beautiful to me at the time.

 

"Slut" is used as an insult these days that refers to someone's sexual life rather than to that persons IQ like other insults do. I'm not much for insults or for judging people based on how many persons they have pleased.
It does sound like you like oral sex quite a bit. I don't know if you like it more than other women, but perhaps you express it more than others.