Well we had split up for a couple of weeks (been together 10 years) and I decided to go see her and when I let myself in she was still in bed. She had obviously been drinking and was playing with herself and was extremely horny. I sat beside her and I noticed she had hickeys around her mouth and also what look like dried spunk, it was obvious she had been with someone, which was cool as we had split. I looked around and there were 4 wine glasses that had been used so I thought immediately 3 guys had been there and when making her come with my fingers (on her instruction!!) I noticed more of what looked like spunk and she was bruised in between her legs and around her bum. I had never seen her so horny she said she was sore from playing with herself but was really getting off on it. She never really plays with herself. I asked her if she had fucked anybody and she said she had been speaking to 3 guys in the pub and was kissing 1 of them but that's as far as it went. I don't know what to believe, does the evidence not speak for itself??
lol id say the evidence def speaks for itself... seems she had a fun time tho lol, wonder how much she knew em tho, not wise if she didnt know em at all imo
yep, she def had a fuck of her life. I mean, come on, fucking bruises around her. Thats def. enough evidence.
..dunno if it disgusts me or turns me on to think about it? I am thinking tho why if she had just been fucked by 3 guys would she be playing with herself so much? Sounds weird but it was like her pussy had taken control of her and it needed constant stimulation although you could tell it had had its fair share already. Would have thought after a gangbang more stimulation would be the last thing on her mind! She does have a dildo just wondering if she may been using that alot on herself but that wouldn't account for all the cum if that is what it was........... dunno what to think, shall I just forget it?
Well, you asked her and she told you what she wanted to tell you...I can see how you'd be kinda burning up with curiosity, but I don't see how you can take it much further. Since you've split up, you can't really push her too much about her sex life. I guess there wouldn't be any harm in just saying "Jeez, y'know, it looked like you had cum in you and you were kinda bruised - you sure nothing else happened?" Let her know that it turns you on a little to think about it; that'll either make her more or less likely to tell you about it.
We're back together now -we only split for a few weeks Which is why I am thinking about it and something else that she told me she did in the same few weeks, but since then she said she only told me because she was drunk and she made it up?! That's a whole different thread though!!
If you're back together, actually, that kinda changes everything - I think you've kinda got a right to know how many guys she had sex with while you were apart. Aw come on, tell me what the other thing was! I've got nothing but time...I'm hung over and have no intention of really doing schoolwork today.
There are always more enjoyable things to be doing!!! Ok here goes!! Well this was a few days before the gangbang thing and she had phoned me to see her and I went round, she had been drinking and we got talking and I asked her if she had used her dildo whilst I had been gone (obviously wasn't the FIRST thing I asked her- I just happened to notice it was in a different place!!). She said someone had used it on her, that she met a lad who was 19 in a pub (she is 38 ) and they went back to the flat as he asked to see her sex toys and she said they didn't shag but he did use it on her and he made her cum loads of times!! It does make sense as we had sex and she was very tender and actually said she could still feel it inside her stomach where he had been pushing it in so hard and fast!! Now she said she made it up!! ??? It all seems so unlike her! That day we argued and I left again!
Get a straight answer from her already,I want to know what Really happened Jeeeez. You have a right to know what happened if you're back together.
Dude, I'm not liking this. Maybe if the bitch can't be honest you should have stayed split up. Her stories are about as solid as OJ - and here you are letting her off without anyone even making up a cool rhyme.
May I offer the theory that, since they were broken up at the time, it's her private buisiness and she doesn't owe the OP an explaination of her past. Even her recent past.
See, whereas I think that's an absolutely great philosophy for those who can adopt it; I feel that others simply can't. The past is part of the big picture. Plus, there's a major fucking difference between bearing silent and lying your fucking ass off. I'd have no problem if my girflriend got smashed and fucked by three or even eight dudes while we were broken up; just as long as she didn't lie about it or expect me to touch her without asking the clinic's opinion first.
maybe she lied becuz she thought otherwise she would hurt your feelings!? or something like that. and that gangbang thingy, could it be that she whas on drugs? with or without notice?
Ok, I really hate to sound like an asshole but this story is giving me major wood. Could you possibly learn to enjoy the feelings of well, um... humiliation? You said yourself that you don't know weather to feel bad or to feel horny over this... I had an ex who cheated on me... I cried a lot, it hurt like shit, w/e... Then a few months out of nowhere I started finding the thought hot. (Needless to say, when it turned out she had cheated on me dozens of times I got hard as a rock) You should ask her the truth, just saying you want to be open: And for your own sake, maybe learn to enjoy cheating or swinging. It spares a lot of heartache and makes sex interesting
Yeah I lunched the thread out a bit, been too busy to piss...Cheers for replies made me realise we need to talk Well I asked her about it and she said that she did meet a young guy in a pub but they didn't sleep together she just let him fuck her with her dildo which I now know is true..........she also said there were 3 guys there that other night but 2 of them just watched TV and she slept with the other one.I said she had a lot of cum on her in different places for 1 guy and she said that he shot a big load . I kinda left it , she said sorry and that's where we are at the moment...........should I let it lie???
I don't know, I'd be torn on that. If she lied to you about it to begin with then I wouldn't but if she seems honest and apologetic. Then maybe