What's the one thing someone could do in a relationship with you that you could not get over? I was cheated on. That's the one thing I just couldn't get over. What about y'all??:love:
probably the same, it would break my heart, and couldnt be with someone after knowing he had his cheating mits on some chick
Mits haha I like that. Yeah I think the main thing with cheating is that the find something in that other person that they didn't find in you and they want that so much they're willing to leave all the stuff you have for it. In that case o don't need them anymore
Can't think of too much, really. The only thing I can really think of is no longer cooperating to brighten each others lives. Which would roughly translate to: becoming a selfish bitch. But I have too much sense to date someone who has that in them.
I could perhaps forgive someone for cheating on me if I loved them enough (even though I would NEVER cheat on someone I loved/cared about.. but besides the point) but even though forgiveness I would always have a sense of distrust about the person and THAT is the relationship killer for me. Trust, for me, is the foundation and basis of any relationship and if you can't trust someone, what can you have with them?
- cheaters, liars. - people who don't have a sense of humor. - people who aren't generous. Luckily, u can spot them early.
Definately that! Plus obsessing over their ex. Close one door before you open another. That just bugs me.
I understand your point but I think lying and cheating go hand in hand. You can't trust their commitment to you. You can't trust that while your faithful so are they you know?
Plus obsessing over their ex. Close one door before you open another. That just bugs me.[/QUOTE] What about the people that are still friends with their ex?
i'm convinced that every girl i have dated didn't even like me why else would they cheat, lie, steal, get jealous, or possessive, aggressive, rude or use me for whatever they could get their hands on???? ultimately i don't like self centered people - i want someone who is willing to put as much of themselves into me as i would them. it's not a lot really... only love :love: