So I will try to keep this as short as possible, a few weeks ago I went out clubbing with a white trash Female friend (strictly friend) to catch up and try to relax. While out I met this girl that I got along with instantly and we literally just talked for hours and exchanged numbers and flirty looks, during this time my trailer trash friend kept trying to cockblock me. Anyways this girl was bff's were two male twins who knew my trailer trash friend from years ago. Later in the week I find my trash friend has been threatening to get a bunch of guys to go bash the twins over some random stuff during the week and told them "stay away from my people or I'll get ya" So me and the girl spent ages txting and chatting over FB and on the day of the date I txt and try calling to no answer, the day after I get message saying "the twins dont want me hanging out with you because they are worried about your friend" I tried to explain that I barely know the trash friend and see her every 6 months at best. I am more upset then I should be over this mainly because it was the first time in a while I was actually attracted to someone. Suggestions ? P.s I have already told the white trash friend that she is to NEVER contact me again.
Tell her you ended your trashy friendship, but don't push it. Don't bug her about it if she still seems reserved. At the very most find away to get a message to the twins explaining how the trashy girl was only an acquaintance and that you ended contact with her because of the way she acted. Apologize. But don't expect anything from her. You may have to take this one as a loss, and move on. Just make sure not to pick up chicks when you're hanging out with jealous trashy broads.
Yep I think it will be a loss honestly. but I have sent a short Fbook message to one of the twins asking in a polite manner why he thinks I should not talk to his friend, and explaining that I am not part of her 'group'. I have also asked all of the mutual friends of the twins and trashy broad to remind the trashy one that I NEVER want to see her again. I'm incredibly offended that I am being made out as the bad guy, honestly It sucks because how can I date the girl I met if her bff's though of me like that at one stage.
That sucks man. This is a situation where you just play the waiting game and see how it all pan out long term. It's very easy to come off as too forward or aggressive when you are doing damage control like this. It's further complicated by grudes, ego, and gossip from others which you don't have control over.
If anything being made out to be the "bad guy" should help your cause with this chick. But honestly this girl just sounds flaky. Friends don't have that much control over each other when it comes to who they date. And trust me, you don't want to deal with flaky girls. Do yourself a favor and just forget about her and move on. Stop making situation worse by contacting everyone about it on Facebook!
That was the 2nd thing that went through my head, wtf her friends cant have THAT much influence over her there must be something/someone else. meh Ive severed contact with those involved and moved on, I might send her a txt in 6 months but Ive lost prettymuch any respect for her, shes gone from a potential relationship to maybe a casual hookup and dump.
If you are being judged by her for something someone else did than the girl is not even worth dating. You can do better.
