Dad. Weed. Talk.

I found a gram of pot. In an airtight cotainer. At first I didnt think it was dads. Maybe a friend of his who fregot. But I saw my flare gun behind it. I thought I lost it: parents hid it. So i take it for a bit to a friend to weigh it. Got it back to he closet no prob. I come back to the closet to take it. (were short for tommorow; and I knew dad was going to catch me) and it wasn't fucking there... So now my dad must know I found it.


How should I aproach him about it? He could probably get me better weed easier of he is ok with me smoking. If he isnt I will state he is a hypocrite...

Welll.... What should I do? I'm headed for a hot box with friends early tommoro....

He hasnt said anything to me.

 

what? you found your dad's stash and took it? to weigh it? and then put it back?

don't steal your dad's stash, if that's what you're asking.

if you're asking advice on talking to him about it, say "dad, i found your stash" and go with it from there.

he's probably not gonna give up his connect tho, or he shouldn't. how old are you?

 

if the bud is good, tell him that you'll smoke it unless he gives you his connect or gets you some. if not, just smoke it. tell him you wanted to see what it was like and call him a bad father for leaving it out like that if he gets on your ass about smoking. or you could just be like: "yo, pops, lets burn this fat spliff, get mad fucked up, get some brews and bitches and kick it"

and if that doesn't work, leave the house.

 

sorry made that unclear... when i was weighing it i peiced two and two together....


i know i was a dumbass for moving it in the first place....

and i didn't really plan on taking any.... just sort of.. i dont know..
didnt really go back there to 'take it'

 

im fucking fourteen. i can't leave the house.. lol

and i might not even say anything.. just that it's hard as shit to get anyy bud at all around here; ( i had been talking about getting an ounce of mids, thats gone to hell) and i know my uncle smokes good bud.. if my dad knew, and was ok with it, he could get some...


should i just sort of come home as high as a kite from the hotbox? lol...
guess more trust if i told them...

might not tell them at all...

 

I would just keep on with my life, knowing my dad blazed.

I wouldn't try and blackmail my pops or anything.

 

nonononono!

i do not want to blackmail him! he is awesome. i am completely fine with him blazing, i couldnt care less...

but what im saying is; it would take a whole lot of wieght off my back if he was OK with it.... If he is not; he's a hypocrite and a bad father for improperly storing his stash...

it might get me some trust either way; i told them....

 

ask your uncle instead of your dad. your dad prob wont hook you up unless hes cool with you blazing. if you wanted to talk to your dad about it, try to do it at a time when you know he's high.

 

talk to your dad when he is high.

 

your dad would not be a hypocrite if he tells you that you shouldn't smoke because you are only 14. he has every reason to tell you not to smoke, YET. you're young, still developing, still in school. he's looking out for his kid. wait a few years and when you have proven that you are well on your way to becoming a responsible adult, then he should let you blaze away with him. indeed, he should be storing his stash more discretely when you are around. but that doesn't make it ok for you to demand to be able to smoke, get his connect information, etc. one wrong does not justify another wrong.

 

Your dad might ask why you were in this closet to begin with ?? This is why I never kept shit from my son.
He knows about my past - he knows his dad grew up in a totally different world.

Every now & then he asks me if I want to smoke with him, but I usually politely decline

Ask Dad to just get honest with you- maybe he,ll be relieved

 

good point. sneaking around in your dad's stuff is not a great way to earn his respect and show him you're a responsible person. junglejack - sounds like you've got a good, open relationship with your kid.

 

so, congratulations, you have a shot at parents who are cool with you smoking. do not expect to get his connect, but you should talk to him about it. be like "dad, could we talk?" just be nice and remember not to spread the knowledge around.

and for the record? when you are snooping through your parent's stuff, ALWAYS make a mental picture of the exact location, and then ALWAYS put it back the way you found it. I always tried to teach my brothers that, but they never got it, and were always getting in trouble.

 

yeah, i figure he would probably compare it to alchohol... and i know he has a very valid point. but all im saying is that that would be my defence in the situation.

 

I was not snooping through my parents things. It was in a towel closet. i was searching for a place to hide my stash & wallet! :-D so maybe i better get new spots... .

 

talk to him about how alcohol kills 100,000 people a year in the states but how marijuana has never killed anyone. heres a good weed faq that talks about all the myths and why weed is illegal, definitely show him this- http://www.erowid.org/plants/cannabis/cannabis_faq1.shtml

 

it whould be weird if your father was a dealer

it whould be even weirder if your dad was a dealer and he let you buy pot off of him

it whould be even weirder if your dad was a dealer and he let you buy pot off of him and you whould never ask yourself "why am i buying pot from my dad? shouldnt i be getting it for free?"

 

even if your dad smokes it, i HIGHLY doubt he would hook you up with some, just be thankful that your dad will probably be totally cool with you smoking and probably blaze with you sometimes, god i hate my parents lol

 

my friends dad has stash in his closet too, a lot. we always steal, but he never knew.
but he really doesnt want his kid smoking on this age.

 

:cheers2: thanks

It it was a rough ride but we do have a great bond. It probably also helps that he is 26 now and lives with this G/F in the next town. However I do remember when he was younger, around 18, I told him of my experiences -Hey he asked * * *
From that point on , he was allowed to smoke weed -but only in his room(not all through the house) & only with his G/F. I didn't need all his friends thinking his home was a hang out.
Also helped it was only him and me- I got custody when he was 5 yrs old - & his mom was never in the picture.

respect,
jjack:hat: