cum too fast

does anyone else have this problem most of the time when i have sex i will start to cum withing the first three strokes and im finished within about 15 seconds... as you can imagine me and my girl are frustrated, once in awhile ill last about a minute and if i've already cum earlier i'll last a min or two . is there anything i can do

 

Go again afterwards and you'll last much longer.

 

yeah, start in again pretty much as soon as you cum.


alternately, you could try dating a much uglier girl.

 

Indeed, just go again, you should last longer the second time round. You could try masturbating beforehand but thats not as fun as having sex though

 

Try Edging. When you feel like you are going to cum stop and wait for the feeling to go away then start up again. Repeat as needed.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

All over in 15 seconds? Whoa, that is quick. Too quick.
Work much, much slower and maybe work up a sexual appetite by jerking off some time before. An early/premature ejaculation can sometimes be linked to an emotional or physical imbalance e.g. troubled by something, anxious or worried. You really need a clear head to get the most out of a sex session. When I was a student with so many worries I was lousy at sex. I did cum very quickly which was embarrassing for me and disappointing for the other.

 

Foreplay her right up to her climax and then dive in for the chorus!

 

masterbate like 5 min before having sex

 

While fucking your gf, think of something, some issue at office or related to your business, which is a cause of concern or about which you are worried. By doing this, while your cock will stay hard because of it physically going in our out of your gf's pussy and physical stimulation, mentally you won't be excited enough to shoot. Though I don't cum fast, I adopt this technique to ensure that I do not cum before my gf has her orgasms. It really works.

 

In some ways you can consider yourself lucky. At least you have the capacity to take some control by masturbating beforehand in order to extend the subsequent sessions. I, on the other hand, am on medication for epilepsy which (as with many other medications, such as anti depressants & beta blockers) has a side effect of retarding ejaculation, making it take forever to reach a climax. Stamina, to a certain degree may be all well & good, but after a while it gets tiring as well as causing soreness for both parties concerned.

 

Well I have been at both ends of the spectrum. For most of my active years I was littlehairy. I sometimes didn't even get my cock out of my pants. 1 minute was a serious victory. I know some mention just go again-well many times the embarrassment, or the partner do not leave this option open.

After cumming in seconds it is difficult to obtain an erection anytime in the near future.
The "think of something else" strategy always seems to go against what sex was supposed to be-fun and exciting. Thinking about baseball or dead grandmas’ kind of take that away, plus never worked for me anyway.

Then came depression, and antidepressants. Yes for the most part they can give you ejaculatory issues. Which at first is no big deal after cumming in seconds for years and years. So for a while you just enjoy it and then it gets frustrating.

Then your head gets so screwed up you start having trouble even obtaining an erection, and before long you just try to avoid sex altogether. That way there were no worries-except of course your partner would not be too thrilled.

Then they came up with the blue pill, and if you had no issues with ED or PE you could just enjoy and hope that you will be able to cum.

I have the BEST partner now. She puts no pressure on me what so ever. She considers PE a compliment-you were so excited to be with her you couldn't control yourself. If you have an ED issue or can't cum, she is cool with that-she takes out the trusty vibrator, I help in every way shape and form-she orgasms-assures me everything is great and after 20 years of awful pressure-sex is really enjoyable.

So littlehairy tis a long roller coaster ride you are in for, just try to at least enjoy the ride. Yah

 

Apparently you never read the owners manual. Go buy the following:

Male Sexuality
or
The New Male Sexuality

If will tell you everything you need to know.

 

Yeh thinking of something else works sometimes, but it's really hard to control your thoughts especially if she is loud

I find that alcohol, as stated by doctors, makes it harder for me to finish aka i last longer.
And of course the second time is always way longer.

 

yes...get an uglier fatter stinkier girlfriend..the one you have now is obviously too hot

 

Bearded women, that's the way forward.

 

Tell her its her fault if she cant come as quick as you

 

eat some opiates you wont be blowing any time soon

 

A couple of months ago during sex, my guy had his head kinda off to the side, ... so I'm looking wondering what he is doing, turn around to follow his line of sight, looked back stunned and said, 'you little fucker, are you watching TV?'. He affirmed he was but said he was doing it to distract himself coz he was about to cum and did not want to before I got there.

Well in that case then ...lol. Seriously, I said, 'ok then, keep watching for a minute', beat him to the finish line, ... but how twisted is this, I went from pissed off with him upon initially realizing his attention was elsewhere, to okaying it coz he was actually doing it trying to be considerate to me, to ringing him at work later coz I felt bad and like I had used him because I told him to keep himself distracted whilst I got myself off lol. Der - moral is tho, if your gunna distract yourself, try not to let your girl know you are thinking about grandma's undies or whatever, coz someone is probably not going to like it either way.

I would suggest JC's technique tho. Get yourself close then back off until you can train yourself to hold out longer. Masturbating before hand might work, ..but really, even doing that you should still try to bring yourself to the edge and pull back coz if you just try to do a quick empty, your still teaching your body to blow quickly which kinda goes against what you are wanting to achieve in this instance.

 

It's also worth noting that the FleshLight is frequently sold as a Stamina Training Aid, which I can totally agree with. It does have an incredibly realistic feel, so it would be useful that respect, as well as being great fun when just used for masturbation purposes.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=839DO8-0cY8"]YouTube- Too Fast (Jon Lajoie)