Could this have caused premature ejaculation?

Hello,
Until now I have never had an issue with premature ejaculation. In fact, for my first 5-10 times having sex I had more of an issue even reaching the point of ejaculation. The night before this sexual experience I had masturbated to the point of ejaculation and stopped as close I could without ejaculation or orgasm. I did this several times and then the next day I ejaculated within a matter of minutes just from a handjob.

This seemed to make sense. However, about an hour or two later I was hard again and we had sex. When we did, again I came quickly, within a matter of minutes of the sex. This is what confused me. Shouldn't it be the opposite effect in which I would take a really long time to ejaculate instead?

This confusion only lead to over-thinking it at the moment, leading to my inability to get an erection with her for the rest of that day.

Thanks in advance for any anwers

 

I always had same problem at start with first gf. Both Virginis. My first ever time she yelled for me to stop after 2nd push. Lucky as I almost cummed. Second time I went soft and slow. I literally felt it about to explode in 10 seconds. I pulled out and cummed on bed thinking she wouldn't know and then started again. I slowly got longer with her over 4 years. 2nd gf, it started off awesome sex. Id fuck her for ages but at the time we were into a little narcotics and drinking. 3rd year in and a couple with own home normal life and for some reason I lost total control of sex. I got quicker and quicker cumming. More it happened the more I worried and it got worse until literally I would fill her with cum the very moment she sat down on me. She became so annoyed and angry with me. Thing is, I loved her so much. But the problem went away when she left me.

 

For most men premature ejaculation is driven by how quickly the body responds to the stimulation. James stated he edged then the next day with his partner ejaculated quickly followed by another orgasm as quick just an hour or so later. His mind was highly stimulated and his body responded quickly. After that his brain was sated so there was no need for him to become aroused in the near future.

Alonso lost his control because with the first GF and a virgin his mind was overwhelmed and once his penis was stimulated, boom, he came. By the second GF he became better at control until the environment changed with the comfort of his own home. Now I think there was more to the second GF leaving besides his ejaculation issue but with her she stimulated him so much in that environment he was quick to respond and unable to mentally control it. The GF left and the environment changed. Alonso was back to like before with control.

Neither of these scenarios are uncommon and the longer one is exposed to where it becomes routine the better at controlling the orgasm he becomes. I can relate as I have been so worked up before that when my partner touched my penis, boom, I came. It has been such as I first slide into her pussy I say "Oh My". First thrust and it's "Oh Shit." Second thrust "Uh-oh, oh fuck." Followed by "Fuck!" and "Dam it!" with each subsequent thrust. Then "Aw fuck I'm gonna cum!" and I let it go. So don't be too concerned unless the problem continues long term.

 

If I'm right its trigged by the brain when it gets in front of sex in your brain your already having sex before you get there and boom away you go, your lots gone and so has the evening, its over coming that point in which it seems a lot of have had and being in the club, guys can do this but it takes time and we slowly over come our problem, but its time and it can take time to overcome it, so guys be warned.