Obviously they aren't very cool guys if they go after girls solely on the superficial level. Just because a guy kinda looks like he is into the bohemian lifestyle don't mean dick. "So like,uh, why is it like, that all these really tubular guys, are totally like always with those sluts. Like, gosh, can't they see that like, I'm totally way cooler then like, those bitches?" Sheesh!
I do sort of know what you mean SurfhipE - it does kind of annoy me, the guys that go out with the mean girls...But i guess that these girls can be lovely to guys but to other girls - total utter bitch-A-rama. I don't know if that makes sense, but at my high school, it was like the 'mean' girls were in fact two people, the sweetheart girl who got all the guys because of her lovely ways and her stunning looks and the evil girl who went out of her way to make other girls utterly miserable. I just don't know why guys can't see it.
lol, yeah, i suppose. I still sucks though - I'd rather have someone who understood me and who I could have REAL converstaions with than a just hottie to have sex with...I mean, if that's all you want, have a one night stand; get a friggin blow up doll or hire a prostitute - there'll be less messy talking .
haha that made me laugh.(the doll part) but if you want someone that understooed you, then dont go after the guys who just want a piece of ass, even if they do seem cool
dude the deal behind the whole thing is they are usually hott. guys are attracted to hott chicks man. but then if you get to know them they really can be nice ya know. well some of them. o & also man, you don't find to many chicks that are hippies anymore. well not around my area. i'd love to meet a chick like that though. like one who listens to the music of the 60's & 70's & like is all for peace & all that. i mean it'd be cool. if not to go out of what ever jsut to hang out & talk. it'd be nice to have a relationship with some one that is like me but i mean i'd end up finding some ugly ass hippie bitch. i mean not to be shallow but i don't want a fat ugly monster or nothing. ya gettinm y vibes here?
Originally Posted by Sunnie "So like,uh, why is it like, that all these really tubular guys, are totally like always with those sluts. Like, gosh, can't they see that like, I'm totally way cooler then like, those bitches?" lol! sunnie you just put into words exactly how i picture surfhippE I'm totally not like that, sorry if I gave the wrong vibes or something...it's just frustrating out here for me, you know? Yeah, I guess some of these girls are really cool, heh, it's just the ones I've come in contact and gotten to know aren't the nicest people ever. Maybe it's just the area I'm in or something but not a lot of people are to friendly out here. Sorry again if I gave you the vibe that I'm a stuck up bitch, I am so not like that, hope you don't think so.
well you'll find certain guys that are like that and certain guys that are not...one thing you really got to think about though is how life is right now...more then half the people you see arnt really what they appear to beplus as to the whole punk thing...right now its a fad and maybe just maybe some of those guys are meant to be with girls like that... and to the whole abercrombie girl thing most of the ones at my school are basically assholes to me because half my clothing comes from thrift shops...yes some of them can be nice but for me thats only when im talkin to one of them by themselves...when theyre with their friends theyre really not the same person and about the other guy saying he wouldnt be wiht a fat ugly monster...a lot of us would be lying if we said we would pick a fat ugly monster opposed to a really good looking person based on first glances, but in time i think if we get to know people they either become more beautiful or more ugly on the outside based on their personality im rambling now ill shut up
surfhipe just dont worry about it. all guys will be attracted to hot bimbos but its just like guys having porn on their computer. it doesnt matter. good luck!
heh, that's a good way of looking at it! Thanks! Earlier you said something about me thinking I'm better then them....... I don't, sorry if I gave you the wrong impression! Hope you don't think I'm a really mean hearted person to say something like that, sorry if that ticked anyone off!
ha, I dont have porn on my computer. But I think there is some of those "abercrombie bitches" that are hot, but I do not find them attractive. Not my kinda gurls
Maybe it's because boys are more physically attracted to girls, and girls are more emotionally attracted to boys. So artsy fartsy boy and plastic fantastic girl are a match made in heaven?
sure it seems like a perfect scenario... but when the novelty wears off, and you get tired of wasting your time making sure barbie's every need is met... you realise how shallow miss 'plastic fantastic' really is. i wouldnt take 1000 plastic fantastic sluts and a million dollars over a real girl with real feelings and real emotions... regardless of appearence or any of that other superficial stuff. looks are just a bonus... some of the 'ugliest' people i know oughtta consider a carreer in modeling. although, all 'beautiful' people are not evil. perhaps they wear their abercrombie duds because they like the way they look. i myself could care less what anyone wears. i feel justified in stating this because i have dated shallow people (ironically, usually based on my own shallowness), i have dated artsy people (i myself am one of those 'artsy fartsy' people), and i have dated just plain old average jane kinda chicks. i like the latter the best... anyway, hope you all have a nice day. i agree with chuck... most guys date the shallow chicks because they want some easy lovin'. sure, thats all fine and dandy... but not very fulfilling. please, dont waste your time with meaningless sex-based relationships... they are just that: meaningless.