I'm quite confused right now and in need of some advice. I met a really nice guy about a week and a half ago. At the end of the night he got my number and called me the next day,we went on a date a few days later and had the best time,there were a few silent moments but mostly we just got on really well. After that date he texted me quite a bit,just saying he had a great time and we'd have to do it again really soon,things like that. Now I haven't heard from him since Saturday afternoon,which is only four days but I don't know if I should text him and see if he wants to go out again sometime or just leave it. I just don't understand how someone can be so eager one moment and then completely the opposite the next. I'm probably just being paranoid,any thoughts?
Maybe he doesn't want to seem over eager, and he's waiting for you to contact him. If you like him, at least let him know that you're interested in seeing him again.
I won't stereotype all guys but I know a few of my friends for whom this is the norm. They basically will say all the right things at the end of a date and then step into the car and delete the phone number from their mobile. He may just have been busy. Text him and if he's interested he'll text u back. If he doesn't then I'd suggest it's time to move on.
I wouldn't worry he is probably busy with his wife and kids. Just kidding! Maybe he does not want to seem eager.
dancerannie, that does suck. that's happened to me before too. why the fuck can't guys just be honest? i'd rather hear that a guy didn't feel a connection with me than just be given the cold shoulder. most adult women are mature enough to handle rejection. i don't expect every guy to be into me. men, if you don't want us women to think you're pigs, then don't ACT LIKE PIGS!!! sorry...hehe. got a little carried away there...
