Child Molesters

Should child molesters ever stop feeling guilty for the pain and trauma they have caused a child just because they feel bad about it ?

 

No.
If they are repeat offenders, they probably won't feel guilty at all.

 

I know where the inspiration is from, but where's the poll?!?

edit - sorry, I don't know how I missed it.

 

it's there

 

Nope

Straight up

 

It is one of the lowest crimes in my eyes.

 

^ ^ ^ Word

 

I agree. No one has any right to steal the innocence of a child.

 

THEY SHOULD GET THEIR PECKERS CHOPPED OFF (But the way the justice system works...I'ld probably be the one in shit if I did that to a Pedo)

 

Peds should be dead but society gives them more rights than you and I have.I think if they wacked their dick off and sewed it to there forehead kids would know to stay away.In my opinion the worst of society,lower than murderers.About even with magot shit.

 

what goes around comes around

 

They should be ass raped in prison and then lined up at a wall and shot limb by limb, working their way up to a jaw shot to either kill them or mortaly wound them. Then if they are alive let them be beaten by the prisoners to death after laying there until the brink of death.

 

Obviously few here have concidered that most child molesters were molested as children themselves. Does it make it right? Of Course Not, but the circle does not get broken by inflicting painful punishments.

Once, I met a brother who confided to me that he had just finished probation for child molestation. He felt very bad about the child he had hurt and wished that he could take the child's pain away, but he knew that there was no way to do this. I asked him why he did it & he replied that before prison counciling, he thought that was was adults did with children because adults in his childhood had done the same to him. This happened at an event where there were children & he asked that he not be asked to help with anything in the children's area. On a fluk, someone who didn't know of his situation asked him to return a shovel to the children's area. While there, he observed the preditory actions of another adult with a child, ie-the adult trying to lead the child away from the safety of the children's area without the child's parents' permission. Luckily the child had been taught well & ran away calling for his mother, but when this bro tried to report the preditor to an adult in the children's area, he was chased away because he was truthful about his own past and the active preditor was allowed to freely move about the children's area. Sometimes, people realize the pain they have caused and change, and for those that don't, well Karma is a hard thing to avoid.

 

Wow, hippiestead. You're a heck of a lot more generous than I could ever be. And you know what? I'm not entirely sure that's a good thing.

Every now and then, especially in the "Bare It" forum, I'll read a post that sounds as though it could have been written by a pedophile. Usually, I'll let it pass without comment. Board policing is not one of my talents. Afterwards, I'll reproach myself, wondering whether the creepy poster is hanging around some other message boards, trolling for preteens.

 

I'm not sure if I am generous, I just choose to examine all sides of a coin. When it comes to preditory behavior, I am the first one to point out that a person is acting odd or inapproprietly...and usually rather loudly. Course I also school parents in stores if they choose to allow their child to engage in dangerous behavior, like running or standing in carts.

 

Sorry, Hippiestead. I didn't mean to imply that you were less than responsible.

 

I didn't think that you were implying that was less than responsible, you just mentioned that you thought my open-mindedness might not be a good thing. I wanted to show that having an open-mind didn't mean looking the other way.

Once upon a time, I felt just as venomous about molesters as some of the other posters, then I met the bro that I spoke of. In keeping with the poll options, I will say that the bro felt guilty about what he'd done & probably will continue to feel that way for the rest of his life. Molesters who don't feel guilty are the ones who worry me. We have a case in the sentencing phase here in TX, a child advocate who hurt the very children he was supposed to protect. I think the guy should get the stiffest sentence available & if something were to happen to him in prison, I wouldn't feel bad....but I'm not going to wish more on him than what Karma deems just because I can't see into the guy's past or into his heart; Karma can see both & more.

 

I believe you! Actually, last night, in the Rainbow forum, someone asked the board to write letters to a friend of his who was doing time in the state pen. I noticed you were the first to answer, "Oh, yeah? Tell me what the SOB did first, then we'll talk!"

You and me both. I've also heard, from sources I don't remember well enough to cite, that for many pedophiles, molesting children is an unbreakable compulsion. Even those who do feel guilty may molest again, despite of all the better angels of their nature.

You seem pretty confident in this friend of yours. I hope he justifies that confidence.

Oh, boy. You just kicked over a big ol' can of worms there. Fairly recently, I converted to Catholicism. Right away, I saw how deeply the pedophile priest scandals had hurt and embarassed the Church. Even people who'd never known a perp or a victim felt somehow complicit, as though they should have known what was going on, and done something to prevent it. Granted, making Catholics feel guilty isn't the hardest thing in the world to do, but still, it's a good illustration of just how far the ripples reach.

 

LOL, think I said it a little gentler but I don't believe in rewarding bad behavior...check out today's post

I'm not sure 'trust' is the right word...I still would never leave a child alone with a convicted child molester or even an acussed one but a seemingly healed molester should have the right to live a life if Karma allows.

Raised Catholic. I just said that I really worry about the ones without guilt because they will definately harm again. The TX guy got 'true life', so many life sentences that he will die in jail no matter what. He apologized to the victims & the families but it didn't seem heart-felt. I'm glad he will never have the chance to hurt another child.

 

Thats the trouble with Taboo subjects, no one ever talks about it, like ever to you, and no one ever wants to hear it

So you grow up thinking the way it was for you is the way it is for everyone, just that no one talks about it.

I'm not Pedo, wasn't molested by an adult when younger.

But what do you all think happens when the "perps" are your own age.

So I get a lifetime of people saying kill pedos, poor victims, and then the next day they snigger at Gay people its like WTF?

Gay is the opposite of Pedo, Pedo comes from being oversexualised by adults when younger, Gay mostly comes from being oversexualised by your peers when younger. Is it really that hard to work out?

Why dont gay people tell you?
A) Its not up till we have kids or our friends have kids that we get, no its not that way for all kids
B) Its not traumatic, often its do whatever to help them, get them to like you
C) Often involves whats close by; brother, sister, cousin, best friend some of whom in adult life become your window into the straight world
D) Lucky if the majority of straight people ever have more than one or two gay friends they get close to
E) You all get very agro very quickly about it
F) Maybe the pope is right, you should all go into the baby making clueless, otherwise its just going to stress you out