Cheating in marriage and bi/gay life

Cheating …
I know many guys out here play bi/gay sex without wife knowing ?
Imagine if she cheated how would you feel?

My wife was my highschool sweetheart heart and she never dated any other men…year into our marriage in our mid twenties wife show many fetish and kinks in our bedroom…she introduced porn , slowly became gay porn…through various communication she opened up .,,how she was interested in seeing other men, she admitted she cheated with my friend at the beginning …..that pushed us to more of hotwife/cuck relationship…..if I didn’t communicate or ask the right questions or check in…..she would have been seeing other guys. She was honest and opened up …if we didn’t talk or ask she would continued to cheat…
Similarly as Bi/gay when I first got seduced and become interested in men, I opened up to wife ….she was respectful and wanted me to be with more men…and she has even gotten me to service her lovers …

moral of the story is …as bi/gay you may be playing around….who knows if she is going playing around or she wants to bud affaird to…

learn ..to communicate and respect both partners needs …

also I openly tell my bi/gay hook ups that I’m seeing mutiple partners as well.

No hurt feelings and happy place

 

That’s great

 

My wife is not, and never will be as open minded about my bisexuality. And since she is no longer interested in sex at all and has said she doesn’t want to know how I satisfy those needs I do what I do in secret. I don’t have animosities against her. If it no longer is pleasurable for her the it’s not fun for me if she just goes along with it as a chore. In other regards our marriage is good. I treat her well as she does me.
If she were to decide she wanted to have sex with other women I’d be fine with it. As long as it wasn’t a search to replace me.

 

My wife has stopped having sex, said it wouldn't bother her if she never had it again. Yet she wouldn't agree to an open marriage, and thinks I'll just put up with her bull shit on this topic that makes me miserable?! I tried to divorce, but let her talk me into a short delay which became a long delay. In her warped mind she thinks since it doesn't bother her, it isn't unfair, and it shouldn't bother me!

I suggested an open marriage to save our marriage, not just to have sex with anyone at anytime!
Instead, I am planning for divorce, before life throws yet another sharp turn and delays me more!

 

do what’s best for both of you..we are not in place to judge…
Only advice is giving another talk or counciling may help ….

good luck