Chat with a friend.

Do you have a friend who you can be open with about your enjoyment of masturbation with no shame?

 

No

 

Used to but we don't hang out much these days

 

Only anonymous friends...like here. Couldn't imagine it being a topic of conversation between me and friends....

 

Ditto

 

I did back when I was very young. We had a neighbourhood jerk club. Since then people I have met here.

 

in real life one female friend. Here there are some guys I can talk to.

 

Never talked about it irl, I do all the time online though in chat rooms and forums

 

I have a buddy that knows all, after all we have been in 3sums together with my wife, and there’s a couple of guys on here that I share with.

 

Yeah. I have a few. It's wonderful. It's so hard to not have that. Any time I haven't had someone it OK to say absolutely anything to with regards to masturbation, I feel like all this stuff I want to express to someone else. Doesn't matter who. Just anyone. Feels like I'm overloading past critical mass of all those things building up inside me trying to burst out and it's so painful but also exhausting to push them back down and suppress the urge to mention them to someone else. Just awful. Why??? Why must we burden ourselves with this ludicrous idea that this thing we are all doing and know everyone else is too is so ghastly or scandalous or awkward to hear about from others and to say the same to them???? Why invent more shit to be nervous about and hide from each other??? I will never understand it. Bless every male and female friend and family member I've ever had who would discuss and inquire about masturbation with me. You are all heroes.

 

no, but I do chat online with a couple of guys. Live the chats!!!

 

Why do you chat about masturbation only with men? Not judging. I'm genuinely interested if there's a reason one gender is more comfortable or easier or more arousing to chat about that with than another.

 

Actually ended up talking about masturbating with my friend just now. He asked how taking Cialis has been going for me and I told him about how it's the first time in years I'm having orgasms by stroking again instead of only ever using vibrators, or playing with it soft long enough that sooner or later cum just starts leaking out suddenly and I have a brief flash of a weak orgasm that seriously lasts a second or less. With the cialis, I'm able to stroke my erection for a fair amount of time and build up to a full and relieving orgasm.