I have been with my girl for 3 years now. Everything is great. We get along just fine. We enjoy the same things. We are the perfect couple... Except for in the bedroom. Damn!!! Why? At the beggining of the relationship our sexual chemistry was great. That lasted for about a year. Around year 2 things started to slow down in the sheets. I didnt stop doing the things i usually did. There were not any mood altering events that took place. We became even closer... But yet so far. It dropped to getting it on about once a week. Then to twice a month. Whenever i brought it to her attention she always said she would try to pick it up more. She says that it is because of bad relationships. She says good dick kept her in bad relationships. She doesnt let sex be her ruler. I understand that... But ... Toot toot... Im a good man that is all about her. Im not going any where. Year 3 we got married. We have a beautiful little boy together and im loving life. I just want to know is there anything i can do to get this girl to want to have sex with me. My male ego is starting to kick in here. Im one that loves to read and keep things interesting in the bedroom. I pay attention to detail. Im not a selfish lover. Never had any complaints and i hold down the number one spot on a lot of womens lay list might i add!!! There goes my ego. Anywho. HELP!!!!
Sometimes people will do things during the courting phase of a relationship that will not last. Just research NRE - New Relationship Energy.
buy a vibrator, take her by surprise. In the book of sex there are thousands of things you can do to make it more fun/interesting for her. Maybe her libido is off the tracks. Communication would also help. This is an issue that ca be resolved, it's just a matter of how. My advice as stated before: - find more things to do during - communicate that is all.
