please. I cant talk to friends about this anymore. It is about the crush on co worker. Guysss any suggestions as to what this guy maybe t hinking... Please let me know. I guess I should just forget it now. It has been a week now. Please read my post below. I am wondering if I am imagining that this guy really liked me . or what.
The way I see it, you have 2 options. 1) Pursue him further, but immediately be open and honest about what you want from him, your intention to leave your boyfriend (especially mention that you would do it whether he were around or not) and then ask him to honestly tell you if he wants to continue to head down the path you thought you were going with him... 2) Take the fact that he did not reply to your invitations to go out as a sign that he is no longer interested in you, and give up. Move on, forget about him and find another guy for you... there's always more out there, and it might save you (and he) some pain in the long run... To me, I really don't see any other option which will do you any good... I mean really, you either want to know for sure or just forget it, don't you? Anyway, that's my advice to you, for what it is worth... Let us know what happens!
yeah well the dude got a hard on everytime he saw me in a skirt. He would walk by and check me out hard. We never talked much just body language and eye contact you know. I asked him to be my reference because I knew he would say yes because I could tell he was attracted to me as I was him. Maybe he knows I have a boyfriend. I haven't actually said told him How i feel. I just try to be friends. I am going to call him at work, get a reaction, see how he acts and then email him my number and tell him to call me if he wants to hangout. that will answere the whole dilema, it has been a week since the last email and 2 weeks since we last saw eachother, but believe me he gave me those bedroom eyes. Who knows maybe got scared too. I just don't get it. I have never experienced an attractionlike this. I know playful flirting and this was more serious.
E-mail the guy. Like sm0key42o8 said. Just go for it. Regrets are a bitch. We'll be right behind you.
